This is long but I need help, I don't know how to deal?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

Question

Starting out, there are 3 guys in this and we will call them J, S, and P. (i've liked P for almost 2 years)

So I've known my bff for 3 years and we have been real close until around october when my boyfriend (P) broke up with me and she got a boyfriend (S) and then broke up with him 3 weeks later (even know he loved her). Then I started to like S and admitted it to her, and she told me to ask him out (actually she told me that she wouldn't be my friend if I didn't ask him out). So I asked him out and he says yes and my friend gets all mad and starts to hang out with the girls she can't stand and gets all bff-y with them and then would come to me and talk about how "she couldn't stand them" and c**p like that. So eventually S breaks up with me and then asks her out the same night and she, of course, says yes. The next week or something, she breaks up with him and then acts like it never happened even though he was madly in love with her. Wait, there's more. . .

Answer 1

Sounds to me like she is a terrible friend. With friends like her who needs enemies? I say ditch her and find a new friend. Good luck.

Answer 2

yo im gonna help you keep to the summarys k? anywho sit her down and tell her what she is doing is hurting you friendship an if she values you as a person an as a friend he w***e like behavior will come to a drastic halt

Answer 3

Give her a word a two. Brush it off. And forget the h**l about this girl. If she trys to apoligize says its to late.

Answer 4

Get rid of her! She clearly isn't worth it.Find new friends that actually have some respect for you.

Answer 5

1) Beat her to the guys.

2) Don't tell her who you like.

3) Don't date yet...

Choose one and Problem solved.

Answer 6

This girl sounds like a bad friend, I would slowly drift apart from her. I know that you guys have been friends for a while, but if she is willing to ask out a guy that you said that you LOVED not liked, then what else would she be willing to do. Honestly she seems like the type that if she got in trouble for doing something she would blame you for it, even if you had nothing to do with it. Anyways if you do this and she asks you what is the deal I would just say that you wanted to give her and her boyfriend some time alone together (when I did this I would say it very fallaciously).

Answer 7

I think you should find another nice and true friend. but if this is impossible just let it go. people usually do that to get attention so ignore it. You could also just  tell her about it, if you have another fight well so be it, make a new friend.

friends like that aren't true friends so tell her about, walk sraght away and then go and hang out with a new friend.

Answer 8

A true friend would never do that to someone. A true friend also understands that friendship comes before any guy. You dont need a friend like that. Find a new guy cause you dont need one that is going to be all over your friend cause he had to know that yall was friends. When yo find a new guy dont let her know about him. That is if yall are still friends that is. Good luck and please remember that no want a be friend or guy is worth you hurting or getting in trouble.

Answer 9

are you a bisexual ? um u shouldn't be surprised because girls don't know what they want so move on to guys they are better

Answer 10

Why are you still friends with this s***k.

You girls are going to give each other a bad rep!

1. YOU NEVER DATE UR "BFF'S" EXES! LIKE NEVER EVER

2. IF YOUR FRIEND LIKES/CARES/LOVES FOR SOMEONE THAT PERSON IS DEFINITELY OFF LIMITS.

I MEAN HONESTLY THIS IS KIND OF YOUR FAULT FOR LIKING "S" AND TELLING HER. MAYBE DEEP DOWN INSIDE SHE LIKED "S" STILL AND CARED FOR HIM BUT SHES WAY TOO PROUD TO ADMIT IT.

(WHICH IS WHY SHE ONLY GOES OUT WITH THESE BOYS FOR A COUPLE OF DAYS AND ALREADY WANTS TO BREAK UP  WITH THEM) SO EVEN THOUGH IT BOTHERED HER SHE COULDN'T TELL YOU. SO SHE FORCED YOU TO BE WITH HIM.

SO NOW SHES TRYING TO GET BACK AT YOU UNDERCOVER THOUGH.

DO YOU THINK A TRUE FRIEND WOULD GO OUT WITH SOMEONE YOU JUST SAID YOUR IN LOVE WITH...DEFINITELY NOT. BUT ESPECIALLY SINCE THE MAJORITY OF US GIRLS KNOW RULE #1.

BUT I WOULD DEFINITELY TELL P HOW YOU FEEL. MAYBE  YOU GUYS COULD BE TOGETHER. DROP MISSES BFF BECAUSE SHES REALLY NOT A GOOD FRIEND. K WELL GOODLUCK DONT LET HER GET TO YOU ANYMORE KK

Answer 11

Get new friends.

True friends don't date they're "bffs" exes'.

Answer 12

Well, your long version made my head spin...

If you like a boy, just tell him. Get to him before she does and have a long relationship.

Answer 13

First of all, I would like to know how old you are.  As you get older you will learn that this girl was never really your friend.  If you are unhappy about what she has done to you, you should tell her.  Also, it sounds like you could wait a couple of weeks and she will break up with this guy anyways, why bother breaking them up.  If you are meant to be with him, it will work out in the long run. Otherwise, move on and find a new group of friends who really care for you.

Answer 14

Don't worry, there's plenty of more letters in the alphabet for you.

Your friend can't have them all.