This is more like venting....?

Question

If you're going to make me feel worse, please don't answer...please.

My boyfriend who loved me and cared for me for some time then used me for s*x. It just hit to me that he's using me for s*x. He started making excuses that he can't see me because he's busy and all that BS. I feel so hurt that someone cared for me has totally lost interest in me like that. He went on a vacation with his friends without even telling me or seeing me (He called me when he was there) So I went and got a new phone number. I just ignored him without telling him anything.....nothing. He now can't get access to me unless he tries realy hard.

Did I do the right thing?

Answer 1

That's one way to handle it.

At some point you'll want closure, write down what you want to say, (so you'll be sure to get every question answered, make yourself notes, don't read), set up a time to see him, (you still have his phone #), make it a public place, and end the relationship.

Closure is a good and healthy thing, at this point you've broken off contact, (how you did it was fine), but relationships need healthy ending, (YOU need as healthy an ending as you can get)

Good job!  (Sorry for the circumstance)

Luck

Answer 2

I don't know the hole story but to me it seems that you went a little far as to change your number. BUt like i siad i don't know the whole story. If hes doing what you say he is doing then i completly agree with you. It's wrong for someone to use you.

Answer 3

I think you did the right thing.  It must be really hard to go through and by ignoring him  its  letting him know thats it was wrong to take advantage of you  in that way.  Hopefully he will realize why your ignoring him and try to apologize.