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Question

In my art class our teacher favours all the popular folk who have lots to say for themselves..just like the teacher himsel & i am the quiet one and hate him hating me..why are teachers like that or is it just my mind? ='[

Answer 1

the techer like thet  

Answer 2

I hope its in your mind, yes the teacher will respond to the chatty ones but they are totally professional when it comes to giving help and marking.

Answer 3

I have never hated a student. Even the one who threatened to hit me. Teachers don't think of students in those terms.

Your fellow students who are outgoing are communicating with your teacher. he is seeing their personalities and able to bond with them in this way.

If you are quiet, he just hasn't really met you yet.

Now this may be the case or he may really favor those kids (teachers are human and sometimes we don't realize we are doing this). But he does NOT hate you. He probably doesn't dislike you either. My guess is that you see him favoring the others and you assume he doesn't treat you the same way because of his emotions. The fact is we can't all connect with all our kids because some personality types don't mesh as well. The fact you care if he likes you shows you are a sensitive person that wants people to like you. There is nothing wrong with that.

If this is the beginning, give it time. Your relationship with your teacher will evolve just like all relationships evolve. Your best friend wasn't your best friend the moment you met. You know what I mean?

Answer 4

I know what you mean don't worry you are not alone the chances are a LOT of kids in your class probably feel that way. Since he is quite loud he will enjoy taking to fellow pupils so don't be afraid to speak up and talk once in a while. My spanish teacher was exactly like that and I thought he hated me soo much but come exams the loud popular ones did really badly and now he hates them so you see don't worry about it.

Answer 5

I'm sure that he doesn't hate you it probly is just easier to interact with the "popular folk" because they do talk so much.  I think that it is probly that because you quite he just doesn't notice/know you as much....

Answer 6

He doesn't hate you. As a teacher I would say we don't really hate any pupils....yes some are annoying when they won't behave etc but secretly we still have feelings for them and want them to do well. You need to get noticed more thats all...my advice to you would be if you don't want to say a lot in class, try talking with your teacher after a lesson or after school. Go to him with some work or ask him for some help with something...not only will he appreciate it, he will notice you more and start to take more notice of you in the lessons too...maybe try to get you more involved.

Hope this helps

Answer 7

ever heard  "the squeeky wheel get the grease"?

Answer 8

Well it is possible, but it may be simply because you are quite.  Remember the old saying "The squeaky wheel gets the grease".

Answer 9

He doesn't hate you. He just doesn't know you because you don't voice yourself that's all.