This is real, when you are in a crossroads in life, how do u know?

Question

I left my boyfriend of 6 years, i will always love him in my heart, I have left him and went back to him a hand full of times, because of communication and him blowing up at me way out of proportion (for small things like getting a parking ticket on the car). He asked me to marry him this time when i come back, I said no, I feel like I mightn't have made the wrong decision, we should be able to work things out in our relationship, Ya know for better or for worse, Any advice? Thanks

Answer 1

sounds like a rocky relationship. sounds like he is real emotional. sounds like you are the sort to take it. two peas in a pod.

if he isnt abusive violently, or emotionally damaging and you like that sorta passion, as i am envious of you for having, i say Fin marry the guy already.

if you dont like that sorta temper on a guy, and he wont change his ways, then give him my number.

Answer 2

6 years is a long time to be with someone and not married.  If the two of you are having problems getting along now...marriage will only make those problems bigger.  I think the two of you need to learn to resolve conflict in an adult manner.   If you think that you should leave then do so...if you want to give this another try then seek some professional help to deal with the communication break down.

Answer 3

If you love him then marry him,

Don't keep waiting,

You coming back all the time is probally making him

think that you like him o.o

Answer 4

you said NO for a reason--you should stick with your gut feeling--it's alot easier to leave him when your boyfriend/girlfriend--gets alittle sticker when your married. you need to think long & hard before running back~

Answer 5

Hook up with someone you do not have a pattern of fighting and breakup with.  Patterns repeat themselves.  You made the right decision.

Answer 6

The problem with crossroads in life is that you don't usually realize you have crossed them until well after you did.  As for your boyfriend, are you, overall, happier without him?  He sounds like he has a bad temper and that will just get worse if you marry.  You have made your decision for your own reasons so don't wonder about what ifs?  Move on with your life, you probably made the right decision.

Answer 7

If he blows up at you over stupid silly petty stuff..h**l no, don't marry him. Move on and find someone that is a bit more understanding and doesn't think you are any less than he is. Couples should be equal partners, not one making the other one feel inferior to the other.

Hope this helps

Answer 8

if you wernt able to work it out in the last six years is the magical marriage license going to fix it?

you said no for a reason.  dont second guess yourself cause the word marriage was used.

Answer 9

You dont want to be stuck in a marriage you might change your mind about, If it doesnt work when you are not married things wont change, they actually get worse, he thinks by marrying you then you can never leave him again.

Answer 10

why not try dating other people?  you may find people with differing interests and issues to be refreshing.