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I think my friend is jealous of me because she is always really mean to me and she gives me dirty looks all the time plus she excludes me and the list just goes on forever her behavior is really messed up i dont know why she is doing this but im starting to wonder maybe because i model and i asked a question before like this and everyone was treating me like a conceited 12 year old well guess what i never said anything so im just really upset about everything but i seriously think she hates me because im a model if you think im just showing off then please leave this question this is serious i dont know what to do

help.

Answer 1

the only way to get over this is to talk to her and talk it out, if she's jealous of you then she's not a true friend now is she?

Answer 2

if shes treating u that bad then shes probally not really your frieds

Answer 3

totally jelioous!

Show everyone what you got.

s***w her.

and yo acually concired this person your freind?

Answer 4

She is the onlii one who would know, if she is like me then she wouldn't be at all jelous that you were a model, it would just be part of lifeand nothing to be jelous of. but if she keeps being mean to you then leave her because she probably isnt a nice person

Answer 5

Maybe she doesn't like you because you come across like you are conceited.

Answer 6

I think you're probably right.  When people act that way, it's usually because they're jealous.  And here's why:

People get jealous of you if they think you're prettier, smarter, richer, or more talented than them.  In other words, "better" than them in some way.  And since THEY think you're better than them, they assume YOU think you're better than them, too.  And that ticks them off (even though it's all in their head).

So they say and do mean things to you, in order to make you feel bad.  Their goal is to cut you down a notch, knock you off your high horse, so you won't feel "so great."  They might also say bad things about you to others, so others won't think you're all that, either.  

Why do they do this?  Because you're a threat to them.  You might take away their guy, their friends, or their place in the social structure.  So they do what they can to eliminate the threat.  They exlude you, so you're not around to compete with them.  They make you feel bad, to take away your confidence.  They look for your flaws and point them out to others, hoping it will make people not like you.

There's nothing you can do to stop someone from being jealous.  But you CAN stop them from attaining their goal, by being the nicest, sweetest, most wonderful person you can be.  If you get angry and fight back or talk about them to others, they'll be able to say, "See, I was right, she's really a ----!"  or "See, she thinks she's so great!"  But if you turn the other cheek and always act in a nice, friendly, mature way, you won't be giving them any ammunition to use against you.  And even if they keep being mean, deep down they'll feel guilty about it, because they'll know that you haven't done anything to deserve it.

I hope this helps some!  =]

Answer 7

well whatever it is, you dont need to be her friend anymore. jealousy or not its just going to get worse over the years. if you still wanna be her friend then talk to her about whats going on and see if you can repair your friendship. good luck

Answer 8

Talk to her... the only way to know for sure what's up with her is to ask.  It may not be a pleasant conversation if it turns out that she is upset with you for something, but at least you'll know.  I've had lots of fights with my best friends, and after we talk it doesn't always end with us still being best friends, but we both felt better because we said stuff we had been holding back.  Chances are she isn't upset with you, maybe she just feels a little left out or something.  I doubt she hates you if you haven't said anything bad about her behind her back or you guys haven't had a fight.  

Good luck!  :)

Answer 9

then she is not a TRUE friend... Even though it is hard you should end the friendship before it eats you up inside.

Answer 10

you stated your a "model" 2 or 3 times. we dont need to know that. maybe she just doesnt like you anymore.

stop asking this question.

Answer 11

ask her whats wrong just say "sometimes you can be kinda mean and you give me looks. Did i do something to hurt your felins or somethin? cus i really want t be friends so if heres something i did please let m know. "

hen u ask i wouldnt bring up the modeling because if that is the reason y shes mad , she will just get more upset that you are bringing it p, if that s the issue then let her bring it up.

Answer 12

Why waste your time with this person.. Loose them. find new ones. You are treated as you allows other to treat you. Don't allow her to be crappy to you. NUFF SAID.

Answer 13

Didn't you just ask this same question hee a little while ago???

Answer 14

talk to her and if it doesnt improve, tell her you cant be her friend. and if she thinks she's a tough girl like you stated last question, and takes a swing, i suggest you fight back... dont hit her or entertain the thought till she puts a hand on you.

Answer 15

if this person is treating you in a mean way, giving you dirty looks and excluding you, she is NOT a friend... friends don't treat each other this way...

friends are supportive and caring... so cross her of the friend list.

Answer 16

i had the same problem! but she was jealous cuz me and my other friend were really close, so everytime i would come around she acted like such a @#$%^&! and i blew her off, i dont need that in my life, i plenty of other things to worry bout.and u dont need it either, blow her off. or confront her and ask her wat her problem is.

Answer 17

She doesnt really sound like a friend. Ask her what her problem is, and if she does not improve, I would just try to break it off.

Answer 18

If she's always been mean to you, why are you friends with her? Don't put yourself around people that will bring you down. You need people in your life that will support you.

I don't see how you are a 12 year old model, but I don't know much about modeling, so I'm not questioning you. All I can say is that you need to not let your modeling go to your head. No one likes conceited people. Stay down to earth. There is no telling if you'll always be a model, so don't run around telling everyone that you are. Be humble, be respectful, but be yourself.