This is really personal. She left me her number and a letter?

Question

So first of all I'm 18, and I just moved to this new place. My new friend's cool, so we were hanging out at his place one time. I think his mom caught me looking at her, she's really really exceptionally hot.

Uh, this most recent time she left her number and a note in my stuff and she wants to have phone s*x

Thinking about it, I am really finding it hard to not call her. I really, REALLY want to and I'm going crazy thinking about it. My friend would obviously hate me if he found out I was even thinking about this, but I might do it anyway...I doubt anything serious with her would happen as far as a "relationship" in the non-physical sense goes....

What in the world do I do now?

-Sigh.-

Answer 1

She is not mentally stable. I'd stay away from all that If I wanted to keep my friends. Future looks like this.

you get a girlfriend, but Lady wants you to herself. GF finds out. GF tells best friend. you are then out a GF, a best friend, AND a phone s*x partner. Don't do it.

Answer 2

live your life without regrets! no matter which choice you make, stick by that decision.

personally, i wouldn't pass up a little fun but then again my conscience is fairly corrupt.

good luck

Answer 3

...tell your friend...

Answer 4

Go for it  

Answer 5

Either throw the note away, after ripping it up.

Or,

Decide to go against what you know is the right thing to do and call her.

Try to do what you think you can sleep easy afterward and still face your friend and his mother the next day.  My opinion is that friends are not that easy to get.  s*x partners are.

Answer 6

You have answered your own question by saying, ". . . I really, REALLY want to."

You know the repercussion.

You are 18, in a strange place and you crave the attention that this woman apparently gives you.  If your friendship with her son is strong then you must never call her.  If your friendship with her son is not strong - well -

But do not be decieved.  Phone s*x will lead to real s*x.  Be prepared for the consiquences

Answer 7

i think it'd depend on how close you and your friend are. even if he never knew it'd still be pretty awkward

Answer 8

s***w that, full s*x or none