This is so stupid!!!!?

Question

so i have this friend. my best friend actually. and lately she's been acting

all bitchy with me. ive been told that she thinks that i'm talking behind her back. *which isn't true* i don't know where she got this stuff from. we met these girl and started hanging out with them. all of a sudden *BAM* me and here start having problems. i don't know if its because ive started talking to some other girl too, but its just that i really trust this other girl! and my best friend is always with her boyfriend. it really upsets me to know that she thinks that i would talk smack behind her back....we've been friends for so long, that i can't believe she would think that about me. so basically i'm just tired of all her dirty looks and her not being a good friend and telling me what's really bothering her.

what should i do? any suggestions? do you think i'm being a bad friend?

Answer 1

you need to go up to her and ask her what is going on. tell her she is your best friend, that you love her and would never do anything to intentionally hurt her.  

Answer 2

all of you hang out together

Answer 3

just go up to her and say : " what's with this attitude that you've been giving me lately" or " Is your period going to end anytime soon?"

that'll set her straight

Answer 4

just pull her aside and remind her of all the good times you had together.  tell her that you only started hanging out with someone else because she spent a lot of time with her boyfriend and u understand that but you wanted someone to hang out with too and that you would never EVER say anything bad about her because she's the best friend you've ever had and you couldnt think of something bad to say about her if you wanted to

Answer 5

this is wat i would do:

silent treatment for as long as it takes until she comes up and oppolagizes or somthing like tht.

Answer 6

ok?

Answer 7

ok...first off i don't think you are a bad friend and your friend seems (no offense) so stupid to be acting that way to you. she doesn't seen like a good friend to you if she always says that she thinks that you talk about her behind her back......it just seems so wrong for her to do that to you.....if i was in your position i wouldn't want to be her friend beacuse i wouldent want to even deal with her

Answer 8

omg. me and my friends have gone through the same problem and what i would do is like tell her how you feel about the problem and like actually mean what you are saying and tell her what you think you guys should do and what you think is the real reason behind the problem. i might work or in some cases the friend will not want to cooperate and then i would just lose the friendship cuz if they are not willing to resolve a problem than they are not a good friend to hang out with. or you could just give the problem time. give you and your friend some space... idk. hope this helps.