This is sort of a stupid question...?

Question

I rather not compare my self. I think being yourself is best . I think all teh girls are trying to impress the hot guys. Maybe one day a nice guy will notice that i'm not trying as hard as them.

Answer 1

1st don't ever chnage yourslef to impress other people trust me it's not worth it

2 you don't have to buy expensive clothes just ones that look cute they could be from trget and still look good

3 if you like the guy get to know him a little more and then ask him for his # or IM

4 just join a lunch table and introduce yourslef  

Answer 2

Try to relate to there conversation sometimes that helps.  I would just say talk to people say hi.  When I was in school I was just really forward and said hi to people that were just sitting around and then I would put my two sence in there conversation and then that is usually how I would do it.

Answer 3

You should talk to him! Seriously, what have you got to lose? No offense but your not talking to anybody, no one seems nice, I mean come on. Just do it! He might be cool. You never know. This girl I know. One day she just randomly talked to me and I thought she was geek. But as we kept talking and talking she's actually none of that. She's really cool and I'm glad I got to meet her.  

Answer 4

Don't change who you are to fit in. You might not have any friends right now, but that's because no one has gotten a chance to get to know you yet.

A majority of the people may be - or seem - spoiled and rich. But don't stereotype them based on their looks... you wouldn't want them to stereotype you based on yours! Sure, some of them may be stuck up, but there will also be people who aren't what they look like on the outside. I'm sure lots of them are nice, and willing to be your friend.

Just be kind to everyone. Don't shut yourself out just because you don't think you have any friends. Be receptive to people who talk to you... start conversations... be friendly... and you'll find people who will be friendly back.

It might not happen right away... and then again, maybe it will. Just give everyone else a chance to get to know you and you'll find people who like you for who you are.

As for the guy you like... don't change who you are to impress him! If you do, and you start a relationship, you'll get tired of the charade sooner or later. Just do the same things as I said above... chat... joke... be friendly... maybe a little flirty! If he likes you, cool! If he doesn't, that's his problem, and you weren't going to change for him anyway.

Sorry for the long answer, but I hope it helps!

Answer 5

go up and talk to somebody

they should except you for who you are not what you wear.. if they ignore you they are not a good friend you will find somebody that WILL

and TALK to the guy! maybe he could be your friend?!

Answer 6

well...... here my advice

c what the people you sitting w/ r talking about and join in don't just sit there and let people ignore you. because people will ignore you unless you talk up.

as for the guy

talk to him! you don't have to change who you are to talk to a guy. If he doesn't like you for who you then it like u said he not worth it.

this isnt a advice to make a fool out of yourself btw xD just be normal and you will do fine eventually you will adapt in with the group  

Answer 7

been there done that, the lunch part was the most difficult but what it comes down to is introducing yourself and asking for a seat, look for people you think youd like to be friends with, find something you have in common, maybe one of them is wearing a shirt with a band you like, comment on it then say "o by the way my name is....., im new here" making friends takes time but it will come to you

as for the guy, dont worry about impressing him and dont compare yourself to other people

Answer 8

Just be nice and friendly take the quiet time as nice and peaceful for yourself time.

Answer 9

I'm on the debate team at my school but what you should do is talk to as many people as possible (make conversations). you don't have anything to loose. but just talk to people when i went to a different middle school  that's what i did

Answer 10

it always takes a month or two to be accepted in this kind of situation. just try not to cut yourself off too much from everyone else.

Answer 11

Right okay, it's easy to see this concerns you.When you move to a new school it's often difficult to make friends. Especially if you don't receive the warm welcome you truly deserve.But right now, I think you should try to just be nice to the others around you.

There is nothing to lose. You don't even truly need people anyway, so don't sweat it. Just try to be yourself and people will love you for who you are :) Unless they are a******s.