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Question

10 points for best answer! Heres the thing... my closet friends (theres 5 of us) have been friends for a long time. But 3 of us (me and two other friends) have been friends for the longest time. One of those friends has turned out to be manipulative and unfair to other friends- she told one friend she didnt believe in god before she met her (which is untrue, shes very religious), told us she was suicidal (and admitted to lying.. probably for attention), manipulated all of us and has been quite hateful (in a crafty way... so you cant really catch her out), and flirted alot with my bf. We don't know what to do. We're not fighting with her, we're getting on. She doesn't know that we know any of this- except for the suicide thing.We're obviously really annoyed and don't want her as a friend anymore... but how do we go about this? We decided we'd meet her halfway between my house and hers and we (me and friends) would tell her out straight we had enough and we don't want her friendship because of this. Is this too harsh?! We're really annoyed... and all the girls are up for it... but i ask myself 'is it the christian thing to do?' and 'is it morally wrong?' I feel terrible because of all this. I know she deserves whats coming and in another sense i don't want to hurt anyone... Please help!!!! 10 points best answer!!!!

Answer 1

this happened to me and my oter 5 best friends, we were all so different and we al kept secrets from one another, and didnt talka btou them ith each toher. we finally ended up talkig about it with each ther but it didnt end to wel..we al just started yelling. those 5 girls were the only friends i had...(HAD) 2 of them hate me and im beggging for there foriveness and the other two r okay with me. i miss our friendship. PLEASE TRY AND WORKEVERYTHING OUT WITH THEM U DNT WANNA END SOMETHING GREAT, I CRY ALMOST EVERYDAY NOW. WOR THINGS OUT IN THE NICEST WAY YOU CAN, MAKE SURE YOU DONT SEPERATE CAUSE SOMETHING STUPID. you will regret and miss ur friendship.

Answer 2

this meeting seems like y'all going to jump her. just call her up and let her know that she's busted. your not wrong for wanting to end a friendship with someone that just lies to get attention. Someone that lies and do crazy things to get attention will continue to do it and it can get worse she could try to turn y'all against each other.

Answer 3

i can see where you both are coming from.

you are right she shouldn't be saying things like this.

but maybe you could've said it alot better try to clamly tell her wat u think and se if her attitude changes if not then maybe u should make a new friend

friends come and go but real friends are honest

Answer 4

If you don't wanna "hurt" anyone there is no magical way anyone can tell you to "hurt" someone. If you don't wanna do it then don't. And it is not morally wrong because you make your own choices and if everyone in the group feels that way then let it be. If you feels sorry for her then maybe you should warn her and maybe help her.  

Answer 5

No it's not morally wrong.  But the way you go about it makes all the difference in the world.  Go with the most mature way.  You and your friends could go talk to her calmly without yelling and explain your feelings.  In my life, I've learned to surround myself with only positive people.  You can't always tell how somebody will end up, but you can sure see signs along the way.  This may even shock her into changing her attitude.  I wouldn't consider her to be a friend with all that you described.  Remember, be the most mature no matter what she does.