This is very serious i m so hurt i need advice!?

Question

ok so i had a friend for 3 yrs she left me for someother girls just cuz she wanted to be popular so i started hanging out with someother girl but one week later schools closed she didnt text me all summer long (she knew my phone number) and schools open in 10 days so she did tonight out of blue just cuz she was bored.I dunno what to do all use me i dont know how to make my friendships last and i m very shy to open cuz i think ppl wont like me i got a best friend but we r not close but she is there for me when i need her i dunno what to do i feel stupid i dunno how to make friends just cuz i think ppl wont like me :( i got a bf for the last 2 yrs but why cant i have friends like everybody else?help i m so hurt

Answer 1

I felt the same way when I was a teenager, You would be surprised at how many kids are feeling this way. Even though it looks like everyone has friends they don't. My daughter doesn't have many friends either and doesn't relate to other girls very easily. I try to keep her involved in the church youth group, some of those girls can be hateful as well though.  When you get older you will realize that having friends and being popular was really not that important. I wish now I had focussed more on school and extracurricular activities. I wish I had joined the band or some clubs. I wish I had taken some art classes and learned how to play an instrument. These are the things you should focus on. Find things you are interested in and try them. By building your self up and getting involved in things I believe you will find happiness and maybe a close friend or two along the way.

Answer 2

Im in a situation like that too. Try and hang out with your friend for 3 years more, But don't RELY on her. Try and make some new friends this year, Its not that hard. Just go with the flow.

Answer 3

I think yahoo answers, isn't such great place to get help like this. Why not ask an older person, mom , dad maybe school counselor... Hope everything goes fine.

p.s.- There are very few friends in this world. Friends are like money, they come and go....

Answer 4

be more outgoing.

if u think about it the only thing that is stopping u is u being shy.

and this girl u should hang out with her and the popular ppl.

cuz thatll make u more outgoing.

just jump in a group

but make sure to be urself.

Answer 5

Rickie B has it right. There are lots of people who feel the way you do; they are all just hiding it. But there is nothing wrong with not having a lot of friends, or even a close friend, for a while. Try to stop worrying that people don't or won't like you. (Most of them are thinking about who likes or doesn't like them, too, and the friend who dropped you to become more popular is really shallow--not worth your time and effort.)

Instead, get involved in some good activities that you can enjoy and you won't even care much about this problem And as a bonus that usually comes along with following this suggestion, you will become a more interesting person and attract friends. You will very likely find some among the people sharing those activities.