This is what I found on my hubby phone YOU TELL ME what you think??

Question

He wrote this to another women???

Here is goes:::

I understand. But If I never went out with you sister we would have never found out that we have STRONG FEELINGS... God plan 4 us 2 meet this way it may seem wierd but this is the truth and we can't hine it. It's like everybody see that we really care and like each other?

So I found this on his phone Text message? Is He Cheating???

Answer 1

If he's not cheating already he's clearly planning to. You need to think of yourself, asking is only going to cause an argument, you've seen it for yourself...it's tough to say "move on" because it's not that easy! "STRONG FEELINGS" you need to start removing your feelings from this relationship so that this will be easier in the end for you!

Good luck hun!

Answer 2

well he's obviously in love with someone else. doesnt mean hes doing stuff with her though.

Answer 3

I really think you know the answer is probably yes. Cheating creates allot of problems in relationships. Trusting a person, and being able to forgive is a huge step.Also ask yourself is this relationship really worth saving?

Answer 4

cheating.  since he say "everybody see that we really care" is he playing you for a fool around people you know?  

He doesn't have loser friends that use his phone, because they dont' have one, right?  

I would ask him about it. and see what he says.  Depending on how and what he says, you will know.

Answer 5

lol. what are you waiting for to throw him out?

if he is not cheating then he is planing to do so, and someone like that, what do u need him for? dump the b*****d!

Answer 6

Uh, YEA!  

Answer 7

hmm

Answer 8

Pretty much, Yeah!  Did you really need anyone else to explain that to you- the writing is on the wall. I'm sorry that you are going through this but, you need to have a talk with your husband & let him know that you are on to him. It sounds like from the message that he is not being very discreet about his actions if other people are aware of wha is going on. You deserve to know the truth so that you can make a sound decision whether you plan on staying married to him or ending it. He has broken his marriage vows & you deserve to be married to a man who is loyal & commited to you & ONLY you. Take care!

Answer 9

probably, but why were you going through his phone?

Answer 10

God would never make cheating possible.His behavior is pure human lust. I hope he's hasn't cheated but I would step in before you get hurt. You looking at his messages is nothing compared with what he's doing..besides, couples shouldn't keep secrets that can ruin the marriage.

Answer 11

Tell him U've read the message and ask him what it meant.

Answer 12

texting for an adult in my mind is chidlish, i fkin hate cell phones, they suck

Answer 13

Well if you were looking through his phone then you obviously already have trust issues as well as suspicions.  Instead of building it up and getting stressed out about it why don't you ask..yes I say ask not accuse..and say that you need an explanation because you are obviously feeling very scared and uncomfortable.  

Answer 14

BUSTED!

Yup he is cheating now go put his phone up his you know what. Get him girl!

Answer 15

Forgive me but....I think it's pretty clear. You've answered your own question. Time to move on and find someone who respects you.

Answer 16

That F#@% Cheater........Hey Mama DUMP his *** it obvious you deserve better. I hope your not married YIKES!!! Good Luck.

Answer 17

of course he is...

"this is the truth and we can't hind it. It's like everybody see that we really care and like each other?"

if you dont see that then you are blind.

DUMP THE JERK!!

Answer 18

Ummm I think and who knows I maybe wrong that he is cheating!!!  Maybe you should invite her over and yall all have fun! Just a thought!

Answer 19

It seems fishy. I would confront him if I were you.

Answer 20

honestly seems like he is..dont jump into conclusions yet..and dont mention anythin to him juz keep it to yourself n keep on investgating until everythin is pretty clear..b smart about this..or else he will try to switch it up..gudd luck

Answer 21

Secret Lovers!

I am surprised you did not take the phone across his face lol!

Answer 22

Went out with the SISTER to know they have strong feelings for EACHOTHER ??? Y does he had to go out with the sis to know he had feeling for someone else ?! Radiculous and weird. Dont jump the gun yet I feel.

But simple. the bottom line - If he hid this thing from u and have nt spoken to u bout this then Yes he is cheating !

After the additional details. YES HE IS CHEATING !!!

Answer 23

Can you read this or does it looke like i am writing in spanish or some unknown language.lol,you kidding right?

Answer 24

Hahaha... seriously.  You can't figure that one out you deserve to get duped.

On a side note, why is 19 with 25 sick?  

Answer 25

Yikes!

Well, if (you sister) is YOU, then I would say he is doing a little something on the side. I would definitely say that something is going there. Something is rotten in Denmark.

Confront the sister first, then the husband.

*ominous music playing*

Answer 26

ask him about it not YA, or call cheaters and have them investigate  

Answer 27

ummmm YEAH!

Answer 28

Unless he's a fictional writer, yes, he's cheating.

Answer 29

dough

Answer 30

Seems like it, but what you have to do now just to make sure, is go over the last phone bill and see how many times he has text this number or phoned it, if he has it will soon tell you a story, as it gives you times and days the calls and text messages where made.