This makes me sick, what can I do about my 14 year old sis.?

Question

I have a sis 15 years younger than me and I see pics of her posted on my space etc that make her look seductive, trampish if you will. When I tell her they look awful she yells at me and gets seriously offended. HELP!!!

Answer 1

i would do reverse psycology on her...well kind of

make a fake ID of your own as an older male ( a gross one..lol)

comment on all her pics and continue to send her messages and comments...it may make her think twice and take them down.

i would also fill in your parents about what is going on and tell them your plan of what to do about it.

i completely agree with you being disgusted..i cant stand when little girls thnk they are grown ( or h**l even the grown women) that think its cute to be half naked in pics on their myspace.

it shows low class, ignorance, and that you obviously have no respect for yourself or others around you.

whatever you choose to do i hope it works and your little sister will realize that you are offended by this because you car for her and her well being.

Answer 2

stop telling her.one day she'll realize that  it was trashy and she will know the different between a normal pic and a trashy one.Let ur parents take of this,ur her sister you can help her but you cant make choices for her.I think you should show you mom or dad and let them think of a consequence.I know when i was in the 7th grade i took  pictures like that,but now I'm two years older and i  did realized it was stupid to do stuff like that to get someones attention.Just let her learn on her own or tell your parents.Maybe it will work faster and stronger on her if the parents know.

Answer 3

You're doing the right thing.  A fourteen year old doesn't have good judgment most of the time.  But I have to ask, where are the parents?  Are they totally clueless and don't realize that kids need to be monitored on the web?  It might be better if you educated them on how to do this.  

Answer 4

Don't stop telling her that what she is doing is trashy - do her parents know what she is doing on-line?

Don't worry about her being offended, as a caring big sister, your job is to protect and watch out for her and her safety.

Good Luck!

Answer 5

I think that must be kids nowadays because my 14 yo stepdaughter and her friends seem to do this. She's been boy crazy since she was 4 years old or something. She needs a lot of attention or she gets depressed and moody. I'm really aggravated with her. I was trying to talk to my husband, her father and she kept talking over me like I wasn't there last night so I gave up and went upstairs. But I was fuming. She is completely self absorbed. Of course she knows everything. You can talk to your parents about it. You can try to reason with her when you are calm and can stay in control. She probably won't listen. Do you remember what 14 is like? Some kids are really stubborn like my SD. I'm not stubborn. I'm determined. I could be reasoned with but my SD cannot. Once she has an idea in her head then that's it. She throws temper tantrums. She is seeing a counselor. Your sis will learn from her mistakes, I hope.

edit: Is she a follower? My SD is. I was always independent and had my own mind. I didn't follow the crowd just because but my SD is nothing like me. She follows the crowd. She is unoriginal. It's an obstacle.

Answer 6

Show your mom or dad.

Report abuse on all her pics.

Hmm just do something.

Answer 7

I agree with the answer above me, show the pictures to your parents, unless her id is private she has NO IDEA who is looking at them. How would she feel to know there are probably bald fat old guys in the ir 40'sand older  perving at her !