This question is about s*x so please answer properly.?

Question

i had s*x with my boyfriend and not using a condom. nothing happened. the next time we had s*x i got pregnant. we don't want to kill the baby because it is our baby. he says we'll run and get married even i want it. he loves me so much that he doesn't want to abort. what shall i do?

Answer 1

I'm not sure what the question is. You say you both want the baby.

Do you mean should you marry him. I'm not sure how old you are but if he is talking about running off to marry it sounds like you are young. Do you have a trusting adult you can talk with.

With a baby on the way you don't want to be running off,you will need support.

Be honest with your loved ones is my suggestion, they may take it hard at first but they will come around.

Maybe add a little more detail of what you want to know.

I think you've made a good choce to keep going with the pregnancy because abortion can do alotof damage mentally and emotionally to you.

Answer 2

This is a subjectional question.  Some people are for abortion and some people are against abortion.  From my point of view, I am against abortion.  My wife and I have 2 kids but we want more.  Unfortunately, we've been trying and are unsuccessful.  We are in our late 30s and chalk it up to our age and work environments.  SO, we are looking to adopt.  Lot's of people every year are looking to adopt.  People that are putting children up for adoption have tons of options these days when placing there kids up for adoption.  It's not like in the good old days when you just dropped the kid off and left.  Google adoption agencies and you'll see hundreds with great references and resources to help you.

On the other hand you could keep the child.  Theirs no need to run off though.  What will that solve?  You'll have to start all over in some new location with no support.  Stay where you are!  If your families get angry, they'll get over it.  At least you'll have your friends to help you if your families don't.  You'll be amazed at how people react once you have the child.  Babies put smiles on every ones faces:)

Answer 3

How old are you?

Why the thumbs down? It's not like it would be very realistic to run away and get married if you are 13. First you wouldn't be able to get a job to support the child and second you wouldn't be able to marry. Seeing as you are running away to get married I presume you are underage and will end up homeless and with you and the child starving on the streets. But you could always just live in a fantasy world and do it anyway.

Answer 4

keep the baby and marry him

Answer 5

You both need a support system. If you are responsible and mature enough to have s*x then you are both responsible and mature enough to tell your family.

If you are going to have this child then imagine this child doing what you are both wanting to do to your family. The initial stress it will cause (if any) will be nothing compared to the life time stress of having a child and the responsibility and being by yourselves.

Please rethink about running away....  

Answer 6

keep the baby and marry him if thats what you want but think about it first

Answer 7

This is WORD PLAY!!!!  

Answer 8

talk to ur family because u had them before ur boyfriend and most likely youll have them after not saying that ur relationship will end but keep that in mind... they will help u n whatever decision u make... take time to think about it and but honest with urself and think about what will be best for u and the baby

hope i was a help good luck hope the best 4 u

Answer 9

do what is right, if you dont have the resources to love and nurture the child properly then dont have the child.