Im debating on staying an army wife or joining the army as well. I just want an honest opinion in as much detail as possible. What I know so far is as an army wife you have the freedom to do what you want. You do have the means to go and see places. You can focus on yourself, and all you have to do is be there for your husband and be faithful. The downside is that your husband will hang out with mostly single young men that dont value marriage and will egg on your husband to cheat. There are long times where you dont see your husband and you have no idea what is going on. There is the whole stupid rivalry between spouses and army women...
Now I hear from the army women that your life is structured just like the men, but you become really close to them and eachother through all of the stresses that you go through. You get the true army experience but you are away just as much and cheating can and may happen. The stupid rivalry also means that as an army women, you tend to hang out with mostly other army women. Now for some honesty. That is what I know so far. If anyone can tell me more or help me out with this decision it would mean the world.
About me...Im an army brat, my husband is at ft jackson right now. Im at the beginning steps with my recruiter. Ive wanted to serve the country all my life in whatever way possible. I know the army will make me a stronger person which I want, but I also know that I can help by being a strong wife to my husband and being there to take care of our daughter.
The two things that worry me are as an army wife I know your kind of powerless in a way...you can do what you want but you kind of answer to your husband. If he was to change as I hear horror stories about your up ship creek. Now my husband has been the biggest sweetheart but im not naive.
On the other hand as an army women, you are strained even more on your time with your husband and added to that is your children. You also dont have that much freedom when it comes to personal expression.
I really am torn, I want to join I think it will make me stronger, but I want to be a good mom and wife which will make me stronger in other ways...please give me some advice
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