This "Friend" is ruining my life?

Question

A friend of mine, I'll call her "A", didn't speak to me at all during the summer. She's also started saying extremely rude (and untrue) things about me to my very close friend, all behind my back. Of course, my close friend called me out on it and asked me about it. Anyway, this has been going on about 3 weeks now.

She never seems to leave me alone, and it's really bothering me. For some reason, she wants to get between me and whatever makes me happy.

She always asks me for things. Last week, it was like a small stamp for a letter. In the past 3 days, she has called me SEVEN times, trying to get me to help her write some letter. (I finally answered after I was sick of my phone ringing).

If I avoid her, she finds a way to bother me. If I eat with a friend during lunch, she sticks herself right between me and my friend. I can't get to leave me alone. I can't just blow up at her face, because I would appear to be a bad person in front of the entire student body.

She can twist a story and make it anything she wants. Sadly, everyone would believe her because she is so popular (and manipulative), and I'm not. So, if she says something devastating about me, I would have no friends. (I only have like 3 friends to begin with, because I am a nerd..but still, everyone knows who I am.)

Luckily, she's moving for good in about 4 months. But four months feels like forever! (And I only have her in one class).

Can I get some advice on how to tame this wild girl? (haha). I don't know what to do. I can't get rid of her, and if I can, I don't know how to tell her without her blabbing slander about me!

Thank you for your help, I would really appreciate it!

Answer 1

Just keep smiling, its four months. let her talk all she wants people will just think bad of her. the same people she talks bad about you to are the same people who see her trying to be all friendly friendly with you the same day. they know sehes 2faced and a back stabber. just be nice help her when you can or just keep brushing it off until next week. and in 16 more weeks shes gone.

Answer 2

I think she's just using you. I hope she moves soon.

Answer 3

This is just one of those teens that are "on top of the world" and somehow, in their tiny little world, you slipped to the bottom somehow (not your fault) for some stupid reason. I like you can count all my friends on one hand. But I recomend you do as I have done in the past, and just write them off, and tell them how you feel. Seriously. Either they will take you seriously or get really freaked out and not talk to you anymore. And even if they do spread lies to a student body...remember, in ten years when you are having a better life than they are, what will it really matter? ;)

Answer 4

God, 'A' sounds bloody annoying... anyway, as far as advice goes, maybe be extremelyy annoying back.. just pick up irritating habits when shes around plus it would be funny

OR growl everytime she sits near you

Answer 5

Slap her in front of the whole class !! that's the best thing to do !

Answer 6

shes not a friend at all just ignore her