Those old feelings came back! What to do?

Question

For the longest time I had a crush on one of my friends. We went on a couple dates, but nothing serious developed. I fell so hard for her, because I was shy and she was trying to build my confidence. Because of her influence, I changed some things in my life that needed changing. I am a better person because of her. She didn't feel the same for me. We were apart during the summer. I went on several dates, but haven't met anybody I'm interested in. I'm trying to be happy and trying to enjoy the single life.

I was fine until last week, when I saw my friend again. She's so beautiful! I'm not falling again, but I'm missing liking her. I suddenly miss that wonderful feeling of crushing on her. What do I do to get rid of these feelings?

Answer 1

Well, if you know she doesn't feel the same, the best & only thing you can do is try to stay away from her as much as possible.. If you REALLY want to get over her.

Convince yourself everyday that there's someone else out there.. & That she's not into you.

It'll take some time, but I'm sure you'll overcome it.

Answer 2

maybe you can just hang out together if y'all are meant to date it'll happen and there's no harm in crushing as long as you dont get creepy w/ it lol

Answer 3

You go out on more dates you will meet someone who is going to make you forget this crush.

Answer 4

dude just wait...it's hard at the begining but they'll go away

Answer 5

like and love are 2 completely different things! i wish you wouldve said "im still in love with my friend." anywho if you want to get rid of them then you're going to have to try harder. but honestly i think you should give it some time between you and her. maybe in the future you might finally have a chance with her.  

Answer 6

Sometimes the single life is not as exciting as it should be.  Its kinda lonely.  Keep looking for that special person to fill this void in your life.  Its great having someone to love who loves you back.