My husband and I decided after our second child was born that we did not want any more children. After considering many options, my husband decided that he would have a vastectomy in one year, just in case we changed our mind about conceiving another child. The year mark is August and my husband and I are VERY sure we do not want any more children. (We've had many discussions) He hasn't mentioned the procedure or found a doctor. When I mention it, he tells me that we decided on one year and not before. I don't want to press the issue because this is a delicate matter and it is his body. I do not want him to feel pressured and I want to make sure that this is something that he wants to do. We are taking extra care in avoiding pregnancy, but I don't want to have to worry each month - accidents do happen even though you are taking precautions. Should I leave it alone, or research for him? Please - only polite and experienced answers please.
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