Those who have had many partners-WHY?

Question

It's disgusting. I don't see how people in this day say it's no big deal as long as you use protection. WRONG!

"I've slept with over 10, 15 people and I'm only 25. I don't see the problem" What the h**l?

Answer 1

what does it matter how many people other people have slept with?? how does it affect you on anyway!

Answer 2

i think its wrong, im not religious or anything, but i just think its a special thing and that it may someday hurt the person you come to love.

Answer 3

Well are you saying over 10 is many, because I am 25 and I have had 8. Some say that is many while others say it does not. I am cautious when I sleep with someone and if you take all measures, I do not see the problem. I am 25, have a great job, still in college, and get this...NO KIDS and NO STDS either.

however, if you are 18 and have had 10 to 15 partners, I then see a problem.  

Answer 4

Yeah, that is sick.  But it's up to them, they probably have a lot of STDs.  And ppl are not always honest with the numbers they give out.  Supposedly with men your supposed to divide it by 3 and with women multiply by 2.  LOL But that's not true either.

Answer 5

like an old song says, 'looking for love in all the wrong places'.  its valid.  knew a large amount of people in the same boat.  no love or family life at home, knowing something is missing and looking for it.  one doesn't know until its too late that a 'romance' is not what it should be.  not knowing what you are missing is a sure way to repeat errors in relationships.  you've got nothing to compare it too until later on in life.  Since I'm definitely not a kid, and since I slept with first woman when I was 11 I'm not the one to say if your relationships are too many.  strongly suggest you slow down, though, since asking this question might be a sign that you want to change things.

Answer 6

I think your being very judgmental! Some people dont see s*x as something BAD, and the ones who arent particularly looking to be in a relationship want to get laid, too. I say sleep with whoever you want, just be SAFE!  

Answer 7

yes i agree with you it is disgusting.

people who put out to alot of people make themselves look easy!

Answer 8

Yeah it's pretty sick!  

Answer 9

well it would be like going to an all you can eat buffet and only having one slice of bread -

some people are anorexic & some are compulsive over eaters - most of us just fall happily in between  

Answer 10

Wrong from what standpoint?

Religious, psychological, physical?wrong ok?but from what standpoint?

I am sure you have an answer to that, and that is because you have been raised a certain way and have a set of beliefs and you believe everyone should confirm to them.

But thats not how the world works, people who say its ok to have many partners have their own reasons for why its ok.

And rightly so, because its their lives and it confirms to their beliefs and value system.

Live and let live, you choose how your life should be( and i am sure you are not perfect) let others choose how theirs should be.

Now don't say, what if someone wants to kill somebody should i be ok with that too?

Thats a different argument and it involves harm to another person, in this case there is no such problem, well if it is harming or hurting someone then it should not be done!!!Fair enough!

But otherwise its ok, and you are no one to judge!