Thoughts on Threesomes with a partner?

Question

18+ only please respond...

ok now I ask this in response to my girl asking me about having a threesome with another girl. I'm curious because she keeps changing her mind about what she's ok with and what she's not ok with so I ask this...

Guys,

Have you as a guy had a threesome with your girl and had positive results? aka her not taking it personal and thinking you want something with the other girl and knowing it was just for both of your fun and enjoyment and to fulfill your fantasies? how did you go about insuring that everything went well? any pointers??

or

if it didn’t go well, what happened? what do you think went wrong and let your good intentions get misconstrued?

Girls,

if you had a threesome with your man and another girl and it was successful and you both enjoyed it and would do it again, who did you do it with?? his friend, your friend, or someone new? what made you comfortable with it and let you feel like he didn’t want to do it just to [censored] another girl and that he legitimately wanted to have a meaningful sexual experience with you?

or

What did he do wrong, or what did you do wrong that made it go sour? what would have made you more comfortable??

Mature responses only please!

Answer 1

I had one with my wife and her best friend. I think what made it so special was the fact that it was so spontaneous. In my case it was something my wife had actually fantasized about (yes so did i but just thought it would stay a fantasy) and it was just a case of right time right place and right amount of alcohol. My opinion is  you both need to feel comfortable with the third person. In my case it was obviously the friend that she had known for years and i am certain she wouldnt have done it with someone else. To be honest im not sure i would have felt right with just a random girl we just met. This will change for each person.

As for making sure your not going to wake up the next morning with a GF death starring you, i would suggest asking her (especially before you actually penetrate) if she is Ok with everything. If you get the slightest sign of her being uncomfortable with what is going on, STOP. (Unless you look at the relationship as temporary in which case go for your life). Let her take a bit of control of the situation as well and i bet she would enjoy it.

As for the next day, trust me, be very cautious of how you express your emotions for what happened the night before. If you talk mainly about the other girl it would obviously get on her nerves and if you state you want more of them and push the issue she may feel she is inadequate to fullfill you desires. Ask her what she thought of it and if she is fine about it, then state what you liked about it. From what i have worked out, you should describe your feelings about what happened the way you would have liked her talking about it if the third person was a man. (eg, if after the threesome all she could talk about was how hot the other guy was and what he done to her was so great but said nothing about you, you would be pissed. i would be.)

My wife loved every minute of it and was more than fine with it. (she actually said the best part of the whole thing was watching me with her. What a woman)  She would do it again but not as a regular thing and as before, right place, right time and probably the right amount of alcohol.

As for the relationship, stronger than ever. But dont think this will mend an already torn or shaky relationship. My wife and i were at the point where we were so comfotable with each other, and the s*x life was already pretty spicy that the inclusion of someone else was not an issue and was more of a s*x toy.

In any case a threesome can be awsome for all involved if approaced right. Dont look at it as though they are there just to please you.

Good luck.

 

Answer 2

Sounds like a lot of fun if both partners are into it. I don't know if I have the stamina to last. I want to see both females have strong orgasms. My fantasy is to stack one woman on the other and do them from top to bottom. While doing it I would remain extremely hard. Of course I am well hung and think that is important to some women.