Tierd Of Messy People?

Question

I was wondering what will you do in said position,

Okay (some of) my man's family (not all of them) keep talking about me and trying break us up, he gave me the okay to curse out the one's who talk **** only, but idk cuz I might be prgno and I don't wanna stress myself into a miscarriage over these people, who don't have a clue.

What would you do in this position, cures em out, file harassment charges, or be the bigger person and leave it alone.

Please I want honest opinions and answers.

Answer 1

It might take a little  time but it dose work.

If you have nothing  nice to say then say nothing AT ALL even if they are in the same room with you.

keep your friends close and your enemies closer.

No one is worth loosing a baby over  

Answer 2

I would stay away from them. I would tell them to stay away from me as well if they didn't then I would file harassment charges.

Answer 3

Messy people crave drama.  The best way to get revenge is to ignore them and prevent the drama.  If they see you living a happy life with your man, it will be the worse revenge you can give them.  Besides, you don't need the stress of all that drama while you're making a precious baby.

Answer 4

Just ignore them. All that matter is how your man feels towards you, the rest of the family just aren't worth the hassel and stress.

Answer 5

I would be the bigger person, remain calm when they talk**** . Show them that you are a mature woman by simply smiling and politelychanging the subject, or even showing your man a bit of affection in front of these people. They are uUNwith themselves and are trying to make you upset- do not give them the satisfaction of bringing you down, or even stuping to there level and fighting back.

Answer 6

leave them alone.  they're idiots.  cursing them out and filing charges are going to cause undue stress.  he should be the one handling it, not you.

Answer 7

Leave it alone. It's not even worth it. I've got a huge extended family and there will always be the handful that will talk about you behind your back. I had the same issues with my mother-in-law. I eventually did curse her out and didn't even see her for two years, which was actually nice lol, but eventually did apologize (although not a real apology cause I still don't feel bad) for the sake of the family. Luckily she's a drunk with selective memory and wants to pretend everyone likes her lol. Good luck.

Answer 8

just  tell them