Tip off police about x wife?

Question

Would you tip the police off? My husbands ex wife got a DUI a few monthes ago and still drives everyday. We don't really like her very much and now that she has gotten the first DUI and can't drive, we drop the kids off and pick them up for her on her days to see them. The custody arrangements aren't finalized between them and we think things will likely go in his favour and think that would give him even more of an edge if she got caught again. Should we s***w her over even more now and tip the cops off that she still drives all the time? Or will it going to backfire maybe?

Answer 1

She's driving on a DUI; and, if she gets the kids back, she'll likely drive with them in the car. So, in my mind this is about the kids' safety. Call the police.

Answer 2

karma isnt something you want to P***k with..........

whether you like it or not you should just leave it where it stands and let the dui mess her chances up on its own  

Answer 3

Back off and just keep feeding her rope, she'll hang herself. Make sure his lawyer asks her about the DUI in court.

Answer 4

I would but the problem is that  it has to be exactly when she is driving . Otherwise its heresay,or harrassment.They need to catch her while driving.Or at least thats how it works in my state,(Mo.) The police here can't pull us over even if they know us & know we dont have a lic. They have to have a good reason to stop us othrer than no liscense .It could backfire if she knows it was you.  

Answer 5

no, I dislike your kind, I hate snitches

Answer 6

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Answer 7

You can tip them all you want, but they still have to catch her in the act.

Answer 8

it will only backfire in your personal life i.e if she finds out. But legally a tip can be made anonymously so it wont come back to haunt you later on. I would say do it, if she is getting DUI's then she is not going to be a good parent for those children and you have to think of their well-fare.  

Answer 9

Let things happen as they should. Her karma will get her.  

Answer 10

do you know she doesn't have a license?  I got a DUI a few months ago and I kept mine.  ??????/  Be sure she doesn't have one or you'll look like a fool.  

Answer 11

I dont know... I can see the temptation, but it would be devestating for the kids if their mother got into big trouble with the law... Is it to ensure custody of the children?  If she found out you did that... woooahhh.

I would leave it, just as long as hse doesnt drive the kids around.

Answer 12

And s******g her over by taking away her children would make you feel good about yourself?  I guess you're not a mom...  It will backfire on you...  like when you have kids with this guy and are his ex wife and the new chick and him try to figure out how to s***w you out of seeing your kids.

This is between him and her.  Stay out of it.  

EDIT: In response to your edit.  Not all 18 year olds are into drugs.  My 18 year old nephew is in the armed forces.  He is not a drunk or a drug addict.  When I was 18, neither was I for that matter.  Were you?  

This is between your husband, his ex-wife and their children.  You do not belong getting involved in anyway.

Answer 13

i wouldnt even think of it as s******g her over, you are looking out for the kids safety, other's safety, even her own safety. dui is serious business that results in injuries and death everyday. these kids are your business and you need to protect them.

Answer 14

Quit being an insanely jealous second wife and leave the woman alone. remember, 2nd wives come 2nd!

Answer 15

it will help your husband gain full custody. but does she deserve to lose her kids?

more important than the relationship between him and his ex wife is the relationship between him and his kids. and her and the kids.

besides driving with a DUI, is she a bad mother?

Answer 16

I say do it. She shouldnt be driving with a dui, especially if she is going through a custody battle...that's just stupid...it's her own fault if she gets "caught".

Answer 17

Personally, I wouldn't call the cops if my hair were on fire and the killer were chasing me around the house.  

Who the h**l actually invites trouble with these fools? You do know they kill people, don't you?

Answer 18

Keep in mind that even if her license was suspended because of the DUI she more than likely is still allowed to drive to and from work and possibly run a limited number of errands if there is not another driver in the household.  Unless you know the exact details of her situation, I'd stay out of it rather than risk it somehow backfiring.  Your best option is to be the bigger person.  If she gets caught driving when she's not supposed to let it be because she screwed up...not because you want to s***w her over.

Answer 19

If she's driving with the kids in the car, yes.  Otherwise, don't be a snitch.  Why would you want to "s***w" anyone over?

Answer 20

My baby brother, who's like my own son, dated a spiteful, hateful ex that abused drugs, is very promiscuous, and has just about every mental problem imaginable.  They have two kids together, and she's made his life a living h**l!  To try and keep him from getting his kids, she even called CPS on ME!  (He has lived with me since he was 14.)  She'd threaten to beat up his girlfriends, stalk him, hide things in his vehicle to make his wife think they were having an affair, used her camera to take pictures of old pictures she had while they were together and send them to his wife...you name it, she's done it!  She's miserable and tries to make his life, and anyone that's related to him, miserable.  She even went so far as to call the police and tell them he'd had s*x with a minor!!  (God always prevails!)

The thing is...she HAS had s*x with a minor, I have people who will testify to the fact!  She can't be with the babies without supervision, BUT her mother allows her to keep the kids.  Again, I have proof!  Although it would be easy to stoop to her level, we've decided to let God handle it.  We pray for those babies and ask God to put angels all about them, and let her be the conniving person she is.  In the end, justice will prevail!  God's still on the throne...He'll take care of her!

Until such time as you catch her driving with the kids in the vehicle, endangering their lives, I'd not rock the boat.  If it's pretty obvious that he's going to get custody of his kids, let her hang herself.  Don't stoop to her level.  It's really not a good look, trust me.

Keeping you and yours in prayer...God's blessings on you...Always!

Answer 21

Without proof, they aren't going to care. Trust me, I've been through h**l and back again with my husband's ex. No, you need to rely on the fact that she got a DUI in the first place. That's bad enough as it is. Hope that she screws up again, or gets caught driving, if not, then at least you have the DUI going against her.

Answer 22

Do it, so it backfires on you.

What are you 18? Grow up.

How hypocritical can someone be, when you and your husband are no better. Stop trying to score brownie points, you are not in the play ground anymore.

Answer 23

Backfire is the right word...I say stay out of it, if not for backfiring in the real world, it could carry some bad karma that can come back on you...

Answer 24

Her continued driving is criminal. The vast majority of drivers have earned the PRIVILEGE to drive. I would bet there is also a lack of mandatory insurance and she is also putting the children at risk.

Rat her out...

Answer 25

I wouldn't bother...unless she is driving drunk, the cops probably have better things to do; and it will just backfire.  Just go to court and show that you are responsible and that you act like adults, and it will likely go in his favor.