Tips of how to soften a weak/hard/dead heart?

Question

i mean in having good Ikhlaq and so on...

Answer 1

The best is 2 read " Ya moqalib al Qoloob sabit Qalbi ala deenik"

Answer 2

What the heck are you talking about? lol Dude take a nap and get off the drugs  

Answer 3

maybe relaxing at a spa would help

Answer 4

Start listening to your conscience.  Help someone.  Answer some questions here on Yahoo and try to help people because you certainly have some experience with guilt and sadness.  You have made a very important first step in asking this question because it shows that you are considering going in the right direction.  God will honor this first step and show you that you are doing the right thing.  Do something unselfish for someone today.

Answer 5

u don't have right to live with dead heart  

Answer 6

Pray. Weep. Repent.

Answer 7

Reflect on and learn about the afterlife.

Read the Qur'an and the biography of the Prophet.

Answer 8

spa getta way weekend

Answer 9

Surely a GP / Dr would be better to advise with you with such matters, not Yahoo

Exercise, gently at first, possibly light laps in the pool.

Take Care

:-)

Answer 10

pit in flour an then warm water

Answer 11

Unfortunately the only way to do this is open yourself up and risk being hurt.  It's the only way.  Just use caution.

Answer 12

Read:

Psa 6:1  O LORD, rebuke me not in your anger, nor discipline me in your wrath.

Psa 6:2  Be gracious to me, O LORD, for I am languishing; heal me, O LORD, for my bones are troubled.

Psa 6:3  My soul also is greatly troubled. But you, O LORD--how long?

Psa 6:4  Turn, O LORD, deliver my life; save me for the sake of your steadfast love.

Psa 6:5  For in death there is no remembrance of you; in Sheol who will give you praise?

Psa 6:6  I am weary with my moaning; every night I flood my bed with tears; I drench my couch with my weeping.

Psa 6:7  My eye wastes away because of grief; it grows weak because of all my foes.

Psa 6:8  Depart from me, all you workers of evil, for the LORD has heard the sound of my weeping.

Psa 6:9  The LORD has heard my plea; the LORD accepts my prayer.

Psa 6:10  All my enemies shall be ashamed and greatly troubled; they shall turn back and be put to shame in a moment.

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Psa 63:1  O God, you are my God; earnestly I seek you; my soul thirsts for you; my flesh faints for you, as in a dry and weary land where there is no water.

Psa 63:2  So I have looked upon you in the sanctuary, beholding your power and glory.

Psa 63:3  Because your steadfast love is better than life, my lips will praise you.

Psa 63:4  So I will bless you as long as I live; in your name I will lift up my hands.

Psa 63:5  My soul will be satisfied as with fat and rich food, and my mouth will praise you with joyful lips,

Psa 63:6  when I remember you upon my bed, and meditate on you in the watches of the night;

Psa 63:7  for you have been my help, and in the shadow of your wings I will sing for joy.

Psa 63:8  My soul clings to you; your right hand upholds me.

Psa 63:9  But those who seek to destroy my life shall go down into the depths of the earth;

Psa 63:10  they shall be given over to the power of the sword; they shall be a portion for jackals.

Psa 63:11  But the king shall rejoice in God; all who swear by him shall exult, for the mouths of liars will be stopped.

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Jer 31:25  For I will satisfy the weary soul, and every languishing soul I will replenish."

I hope this helps. G-d bless you.

Answer 13

Go to a surgeon, and ask them to apply moisturiser regularly, to your heart. The corns and bunions will slowly go away and it'll soften up too.

Sorry! Just felt like joking!!

Well, the first thing to do is to make sure your iman is strong. Pray to Allah (SWT).

Make sure you do the following

Smile at at least one new Muslim a day, and say 'assalamu alaikum' to them.

Be nice to your neighbour, take something like homemade biscuits over

Hold open the door for anyone passing you

Get a conversation started. Talk about small stuff that you know the person would be interested in. If you don't know the other person well enought to know about their preferences, try to talk about things happening around you.

Try to compliment your new pal. But be careful, though, not to flatter them too much.

Make arrangements to meet or talk almost every week. Remember to exchange contact methods. Get email address, grab address, ask for their phone number. Don't leave without getting their personal info if you really like him/her! (However, if they balk at supplying contact information, do not harass them trying to get it. Be nice, smile, and offer to run into them again some day.)

Get them something nice once in a while. And for holidays or birthdays, buy something really special that you know s/he will really appreciate. It doesn't need to be something super expensive. A box of chocolates, a new notebook, if you really mean it, your friend will get the message and be nicer to you too.

Be polite to others. Help when needed, even to people you have never met before. That person might be lonely, and you may be the only one they have talked to that day. Imagine how happy they will be...and you will be happy also, knowing you have been nice to someone.

Don't curse.

Be nice to "everyone", even those who have been nasty to you. Who knows? They might start being nice to you, too! And if they don't, at least you are being decent.

Do not hesitate to offer help. Especially to those who have a their arms full, children they are attending to, difficulty walking, or carrying heavy articles, etc.  

Answer 14

Keep reading the recitation and translation of Surah Al-Rahman and try to read Quran as much as you can, having a feeling of repentance in your heart~!