Tired of arguing about this yet the same thing keeps happening

Question

My boyfriend is telling me he needs space, but I need his attention. I honestly feel like we don't spend enough quality time together even though we are always around each other (we have the same friends.) He doesn't seem to show any interest in what I do. I wouldn't be so clingy/needy so to say if he would just take the time to spend a decent amount of time with me and just forget about going to my best friend's house for once (he is there 24/7 and even when we do spend quality time together we always wind up there).

Answer 1

someone is going to have to give a little and compromise, otherwise you will keep going in this circle.  you can only control yourself and how you react and behave.  i suggest you stop being so clingy and give him a chance to miss you, otherwise you will chase him away.  

Answer 2

HINT:Mayb he has a thing 4 your best/friend(bf).

Mayb you both need some air, he probably feels like you are crowding his space.

or mayb he just wants 2 break up, stop pushing your self on people, that don't want 2 B around you, b/c it can be very annoying, and then they will start avoiding U, like he is doing now.

Answer 3

you are way to immature for a serious relationship so back off for at least two years

Answer 4

...I think you already know the answer to this question. You should give him space. Clingy people can be so annoying. And once you get annoying enough for him, yeah...end of relationship.

If you don't feel that you should be the one to back off a bit this time around, then maybe you're not quite ready for a fully-amiable relationship just yet. You know, life's about giving and taking. Right now, you need to be the one to give.

Answer 5

Your situation actually sounds a lot like what the end of mine did. I know that's extremely pessimistic to say, but honestly it's true. My boyfriend stopped spending time with just ME, it was always us and friends. Even our friends would be like- "why don't you two hang out together ever?" It really started getting to me. In fact, the last day together, i had just come back from being away from him for a week and he came over. Literally 5 minutes after he walked in the door, he got a call from our two guy friends and they were outside my house waiting to get us. I flipped out and he left me, but I feel like I had the right to be mad. As do you.

If your boyfriend needs space, there is only one thing you can do and that's give him space. If you beg him to be with you and try to force more hanging out, in the end you'll just be pushing him away. So if you want to try to hold on to him, go out with a different set of friends, do something apart from him, let him miss you if that's how it's going to be.

Maybe he isn't ready for a commitment yet. If he's anything like my ex, he's probably just a big immature idiot who wants too many things at once.

Answer 6

A COMPROMISE SHOULD BE MADE BETWEEN THE 2 OF YOU, YOU WANT MORE TIME, HE WANTS MORE SPACE, GIVE HIM HIS SPACE, DON'T SPEND YOUR EXTRA TIME OVER YOUR FRIEND HOUSE CAUSE HE WILL BE THERE, GO ELSEWHERE SOMEWHERE DIFFERENT, BE OUT OF HIS SIGHT FOR A COUPLE OF WEEKS THEN SEE HOW HE FEELS, IF HE ACTS UNINTERESTED STILL, IT IS TIME YOU FOUND ANOTHER BF