Tired of having two moms, how to rid one of them?

Question

To be more clear, my mom is dating someone, but I don't like her at ALL.

Answer 1

Is it the two mom thing that bothers you or just this woman in particular you dont like?  I would tell your mother but dont put her on the defensive, explain what it is you dont like about her.  I dont know how long they have been together but maybe you just havent given her enough of a chance to know her.  

Worse comes to worse, as long as she isnt living with you (bummer in that case) just find something else to do when shes around and stay out of their way.  Unfortunetly we dont get to pick who our parents date.  

It probably isnt the first or last person you are not going to like your mother dating.  It sucks but she has a life too.

Answer 2

wow! so ur moms likes chicks. have a talk with ur mom, just the 2 of u and explain 2 her how u feel and let her know that you want to move out if it continues.

Answer 3

You can talk to your mom, but just because you don't like someone doesn't mean your mom won't still date them.  What is it you don't like about the other woman?

Answer 4

leave home or tell her the truth life will go on

Answer 5

You could explain to your mom that you really don't like who she's seeing.

Try to word it carefully, so you don't upset her - but make your point clear.

Answer 6

Unfortunately, it's your mother's relationship, not yours.   I am guessing that the "other one" is not actually one of your parents, but just someone your mother is seeing right now.   You don't need to like her, but you should be polite to her and not make things difficult for your mother.  I'm sure your Mom loves you, and if this other woman is truly not a good person, your mother will eventually end the relationship herself.  But you can't do it for her.

Answer 7

Just remember that things change in life.

Be nice to her and try to find out something you do like about her. She may or may not be a permanent part of your life.

Have a talk with your Mom and tell her you only want her to make rules for you and you will in turn try to find good reasons to like the new person in your life. Your Mom should be the only one who makes rules for you but everyone has to cooperate and try to get along.

It is very normal to have negative feelings about an extra person who you are not used to being around. I hope your Mom will include you in some fun family activities that include the new person in your life so you can build up some happy memories.