To Fathers who have daughters?

Question

My girlfriend who's 16 told her parents that i took her virginity now i cant have contact with her or talk 2 her till school start...I was wondering what you do if your daughter told u this?

Answer 1

Okay, I may not be a parent (I'm the kid!) but I do see where the parents are coming from.

Their daughter is 16 so is technically legal to have s*x, however she is still young so you must be able to understand that they are disappointed.

I think you should arrange with your girlfriend to speak to the parents & see what their problem really is.

Explain to them that you both felt you were ready & cared enough for each other. & make sure to tell them that you were safe!

They probably just had a bit of a shock finding this out but I'm sure if you give them enough time to calm down & you explain to them in a calm manner then they'll soon come round to your relationship.

Answer 2

as a mom of a daughter, i would cut you ball and p***s off.

Answer 3

I'm a mother of 2 daughters.  Our daughters would probably not be allowed to see you again for a really long time.  If you would ever see her again as a boyfriend/girlfriend type thing.....then it would be supervised at all times.  I don't think parents regulate friends their children have nearly as much as they should.  It is a parents responsibility to guard and protect the children the God gave them.

  

Answer 4

There won't be much you can do by yourself to get them to like you again.  Either the passage of time, or your girlfriend telling them she's growing up and they'll have to deal with that...

As for not seeing her till the summer, I'm sure there are ways.  Unless she's locked up in her bedroom all day, you could always just meet her at a friend's house, or another location.

If you or your gf does try talking to them, I'd suggest emphasizing how much you care for her, and that you were very careful to use protection.

After all, in the end... there's not much they can do about it.  

Answer 5

honestly, although I am not a father I think the best thing to do in this situation is to go and talk to the father. Tell him that both you and his daughter talked it over and decided that you both felt it was the right time (make sure to emphasize that she had agreed to it just as much as you did). Tell him that if you could go back you would tell her to talk to her parents about it before making up her mind but you can not go back and the deed has been done. Throughout the time you are telling him this make sure to say how much you love his daughter (it usually helps if you say it more than once in different places). Let him know that you would never put his daughter in harms way, you were safe, and you are not the kind of guy that would brag about or do her as just another k**b on the belt but you are the type of guy who will respect the parents wishes to a certain extent.  

Answer 6

I would beat your ***!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 7

I realize I'm not a dad with a daughter. But I told my parents (well, they asked and I wasn't gonna lie) that my boyfriend took my virginity and they were disappointed, but kinda happy for me. (At least my mom, she was laughing all day about it-lol)

Anyway, don't go behind his back and see her before school-that'll make things worse. I'd go talk to  him man-to-man and find out whats going on. Just be upfront and strait with him.

I wish you the best of luck! :)