To all daddys{about your baby momma}?

Question

sooo.... my daughters 7 months now but i was just wondering?

in between 8 and 9 months of our pregnancy my husband refused to have s*x. when i wanted it most! he said it was because he didnt want to hurt the baby, do men really think like that honestly? or maybe something else?

Answer 1

yeah, we do....plus it can induce labour if you are "doing the act" towards the end....and if you don't have everything ready then it can make a guy not think about it........

Answer 2

Well, I'm no man (lol) but I know a lot of men do think that. Why? Not sure...my hubby had this problem. The reason why in his eyes was because he didn't want the baby to see his p***s, which I thought was humorous. Even if the baby was to see or feel the p***s, it's not like they would remember it. lol. My husband and I have asked my doctor if it will hurt the baby, and my doctor said no. He still wouldn't have s*x with me in the later stages of my pregnancy, though. Which bothered me because the end of my pregnancy is when I wanted to have s*x the most, like you. If you ever get pregnant again, take him to your appts. with you and ask the doctors--easy. :) But with mine that didn't really work, so maybe not so easy. lol.

Good luck...and be grateful you're not pregnant now, you can have s*x anytime you and him want now.

Izzy

Answer 3

i think some do. mine never, if anything he wanted it more when i was pregnant, which made me feel quite good about myself as i was the size of a small house.

Answer 4

I've heard that a lot of men think that, they think they will hit the baby with their you-know-what and damage it somehow or cause you to go into early labor. Sometimes it might just freak them out to feel the baby kick them during s*x.

It's been so common that it's even shown up in movies recently (like Knocked Up).

Answer 5

My husband did,but that was because I had a miscarriage at 18 weeks the day after having s*x.  The cord was coming out and my husband stil had that vision in his mind. But it is perfectly safe to have s*x.  Mine was a special case, we found out later that I did not have any fluid in the womb.  Not realizing it my water broke at 13 weeks.  So no need for your husband to worry if everything is going ok.  

Answer 6

You have to think....if the child can be felt with the ob/gyn just sticking there fingers up there for a pelvic exam.  The dads got to feel it too.  Different positions might have helped.  Mine liked to have s*x he thought the baby bump and then bulge was s**y!