To all mom's out there..... am I exaggerating?????????

Question

This evening, my husbands friends came over to our house, and when je was about to leave he held my 10 month old son, he said to me "what would you do if i took ur son on my own to my house?", i thought he was kidding and told him that i dont want him to, anyway he put my son in the passenger seat, and i thought 2na he wont rea;;y take him, hes just having me on", anyway, he reversed his car and drove down the road alittle and I was 110% sure in my heart that he wouldnt take my baby to his house, besides my son was in the passenger seat, with no car seat or belt on. I was SO SO SO shocked and angry when he called after 5 minutes and said to my husband he's rehed his house, besides he drives very fast, i got very angry and told my husband to call his friend to tell him that ur going to pick our son up, my husband argued with me saying no its not a nice thing to , he said that he took our son coz he loves him, i was furious and shouted at my husband, he just spat in my face.

I just want to know that was i exaggerating????? i was ally concerned for my son, coz he was sat on the passenger seat, no car seat and no seat belt AND my husbands friend drives VERY fast, his house s 10-15 miuntes away from ours, and he called my hubby after 5 minutes of leaving so this proves that he must be driving fast, am i being stupid??? how would u have reacted if that was ur kid???????

Answer 1

you are right to be very angry, this really is not a right or good thing to have done.

Answer 2

is exxagerating the right word?

or would you being asking if you're over reacting? if so, I dont think you are at all!

Answer 3

Wow, first of all this guy had NO right to do that, he could have killed your son. You should have called the police. And secondly, your husband is unbelievable. I really don't like his reaction (or non - reaction) to his friends actions. You've got problems here honey. I think you'd be better off as a single mum away from this lot. Sounds like you're the only one with any sense.

Answer 4

well, i personally wouldn't be happy. he took your son without your permission, isn't that kind of classed as kidnapping? if your husband didn't say he could take your boy. also that is very dangerous driving him with no seat belt or car seat. i'm not a parent (as i am only 13) but i would hate that to happen, if he doesn't bring back your son within a few hours, either go over there and get him or something like that. i hope he is okay xx