To all the parents out there?

Question

how would you feel and what would you do if you walkedin on your thirteen year old daughter making out with her boyfriend?

Answer 1

I would get sick.  I have a 16 year old and it took me a long time to realize that they are gunna do it no matter what.  My advice is to have a simple talk with her about s*x, love and being responsible.   Do not chastise her or she'll want to do it even more.  Talk very openly about s*x so that she will feel comfortable talking about it with you.  Find out what her goals are and explain that she can't fulfill them with a baby on her hip.

Answer 2

What is your 13 year old doing with a boyfriend at her age in the first place?  And why is she in a situation where she can be alone with him unsupervised?  You need more control over her and better life guidance.  Sorry, I only speak the truth.  I was not allowed to date till I was 16, and that was in a group.  Very happy about that now.

Answer 3

If making out still means what it did 20 years ago then I'm sure I'd completely come unglued.  Thirteen is too young to be making out.  What happened to passing notes with check boxes for yes and no and being too embarrassed to talk to a boy so you have your friend ask his friend if she likes you.  I'm not so old that you can call me old but I'll admit to being old fashioned. If you are teaching your children about personal responsibility and the risk of being 'involved' with someone then you should expect your child to make good decisions.  Maybe this is a wake up call for all of us---talk to your pre-teens and teens today about what is acceptable and why.  Help them make good decisions now so when the time comes they will know the answers.

Answer 4

well for one, I think its a little strange for parents to be asking strangers about their kid.  I my mom asked that about me online I'd think it was really stupid, and that she's probably not a good parent if she can't make decisions within her own morals and judgement.  I would totally lose all respect for her.  

Answer 5

be understanding of her age and social status, give her a down to earth talk about being smart and safe, dont lecture, u will turn her against you. be supportive, and real. i would also share some of your oun teenage experiences with her.

Answer 6

i'd film it!! no. i dont have any kids.

Answer 7

it depends what u mean by making out

if you mean kissing i would be cool with it

but if it was more i would be shocked

Answer 8

Well, I wouldn't be happy and I would be shocked. However I wouldn't want to make her feel embarrassed. If I were to do that, then she wouldn't come to me if she ever needed me, say got hurt or pregnant. I definitely don't condone any of that, especially at 13, but I would want her to know she can come to me with anything. So what I would do is make her stay in her room while I talked to the boy separate. Telling him that they are to young and he needs to respect my daughter etc.. I would send him home then go talk to her. I would educate her with hings that can happen and probably tell her my story. I would educate her more on respecting herself and being safe etc. Then I would ground her for having him in there while I'm not home.