To dads, a daughter s*x question

Question

at what age did your daughter start having s*x, howd you hear about it and howd you feel. I have a 16 year old and i believe shes having s*x ad i dont know how to react, stop it or how to find out if she is ir not. Thank you

Answer 1

well i am not a dad...but i had s*x wheni was 15

i told my aunt but if my parents ever asked id deny it.

Answer 2

I hate to tell you this but there is no easy way to find out about it. I didn't start until I was 18 but my sister started at 17. Kids these days seem to be starting earlier and earlier. If I was you i would just let her know that s*x is not something that is all fun and games its a serious thing and if she is she should be using birth control. If you are a single dad I would ask her flat out and even if she says no let her know that you are there for her and are open to the idea of getting her birth control.

Answer 3

Hiya

Im 17 . when i was just turned 16 i was sleeping at my boyfriends regularly with my mums knoledge. She didnt tell my dad because he is violent. one day my mum just told him when i wasnt there that i had a boyfriend and sleeping at his house tonight. my dad was a little dosappointed as all 4 of my sisters had become mums before the age of 16. then my mum told him i was on brth control and he was fone with it,just get her on birth control and be open with her , you cant stop her doing it. i moved out about 4 months after my dad found out (into my older boyfriends) because he did become violent because of different things. im now 25 weeks pregnant (planned) .

=] x*x

Answer 4

I am not a dad but my dad practically raised me. I lost my virginity at 14 and he found out when I was 15, he read a letter from the boy I lost it too, which was not for him. He just told me, that he knows. Honestly, there is no way to stop it or prevent it. You can however, just be there when she has a boy over or make sure when she goes over to a boys house, they are supervised. The boy's mother I lost it to, was always home and hardly ever left us alone. Get her on birth control ASAP. Give her some condoms, BUT tell her you are not promoting it and don't want her doing it. You want her to be safe, you probably don't want to be a grandpa anytime soon.

Sit her down, tell her what you think is going on. She will probably deny it. Tell her you want to get her on birth control, that will help with periods as well, not too many cramps. Tell her you love her and that she should wait, but things happen.

Good Luck.

EDIT:

Also, let her know that if she is/wants to start having s*x, she should be prepared with the consequences.

It's a big responsibility.