I have (had) a guy friend (single dad) who about a year ago got mixed up with his married neighbor. Yes I liked him, wanted to date him ... but he was so into the married chick I never stood a chance. I tried reason with him about her being married and all (I only date single guys..no married or attached) but of course it fell on deaf ears. She found out we hung out one night and flipped on him ..resulting in his committing to her, ditching me and all his friends (over 250) cause he felt this need to prove himself to her. I ran into him online again a few months back...said hello and we resumed conversing. Well i guess she found out and wasnt' happy cause I got a call from him telling me that he said didn't want to talk to me and he doesnt' want to talk to me (never said any such thing) they are getting married. Okay......fine. no problem. 2 days later i'm on a date......and there is a voicemail ....it's his gf or whatever she is. telling me that in case i didnt' get his point..she'd make it for me...he wants nothing to do with me......don't call, email, text nothing. He knows if he contacts me again the wedding is off. Okay ...... i'm ticked off - i'm he and i are both in our 40's and she is 32 ...who in the h**l is she to call my cell and tell me what i can and can't do? Who is she to threaten me, considering i'm 15 years older than she is? Who is HE to give my phone number out in the first place. My first instinct was to call her and give her h**l..but I dont' want to stoop to her level. I'm better than this but I dont' want either of them to think they can get away with this. I want to contact him...wish him well..tell him i feel bad for him cause she's crazy, controlling and manipulating ..but if that's what he wants........have at it. I'm okay with the impending marriage...could care less she betrayed her husband and karma is a B*tch - but it's the flipping behavior........that's got me bonkers. Ideas
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