To everyone out there give me your point of view on this situation because i am more pissed then ever?

Question

ok so heres the deal... i am going to tell you what has just recenetly happened about 9 days ago, i want everyone reading this to give me their point of view on the subject, tell me what you would have and will do and so forth, also please tell me if my reaction to this is in the right...

around 9 days ago (sunday) my friends all went to the city, now we had been planing going there to hang out for around 2-3 weeks ( me included) now when they get to the city (5 of them) 1 of them asks did another bother to call Jamie (me), they all laugh and say no but dont tell him otherwise he will be upset (this is the third time this has happened and each time i have let it go but this time no more). so they go ahead and enjoy the city for a couple of hours. eventualy they decide to go to a movie we have all been talking about and waiting to come out for ages, 2 minutes before the movie is to start i get a call from one of them asking me if i want to go, keeping in mind 1: its 2 minutes before the movie and they call and 2: if i was to go i would be spending time with people who ditched me and will be talking about the fun time they have just had at the city, i mean who does this. anyway im so pissed of i hang up, they call agian this time to prank call me instead, once agian i hang up.

2 days later school comes (we had monday off) and i am so pissed i feel like the first person to talk to me will get choked. they are all siting around a table laughing, i soon find out by one of my other friends who wasnt involved that they were all moking me and laughing about me and how stupid i am. Recess comes along and they continue to talk about me saying why would we hang out with someone like jamie hes such a ******** (i have never done anything to them infact i would have done anything for them and there the dickheads seeing as they say rude stuff to others (not me) and i am the one who stays behind and comforts the person)). at the end of recess to my annoyance one of them comes and sits next to me and acts like nothing is wrong between us, the others walk past and Mat the bigest ******** of the group says oh jason( the guy siting next to me) what are you doing apoligiseing in a sarcastic mode and then laughes with the others. last period comes and i confront one of them, he shrugs and laughes when i tell him what i have partly been anoyed at then says look if you want to hold a grudge agianst me go ahead it makes no difference to me, and then walks away. i hadnt said anything to them for the next few days before matt starts asking me what the h**l are you pissed off, which makes me even angry becuase he is so insensetive he cant even see how his actions have affected me, and he continues to ask this every so often for the next week while spreading around to alot of people i am friends with that i am pissed over nothing and a jerk, turning everyone agianst me, right now i feel like going to school tommorow and beating the **** out of as many of them as i can.

please people tell me what you think of this situation, am i in the right? am i in the wrong? tell me what i should have done and what i should do please.

Answer 1

With friends like that, you don't need enemies. Walk away and don't look back. There are nice people out there who will appreciate you and treat you as a friend should be treated.

Don't even waste your time trying to talk to them or beating the **** out of them. It will only get you in trouble, make matters worse for you, and it would give them more fuel for them to laugh at.

I was in a relationship similar to this when I was in school. I am a middle aged adult now, and can honestly say that I now have the best friends a person could ever have. None of my nasty old friends have true blue friends like I do, that they can count on.  

By the way, my old friends apologized later in life for the way they once treated me, but I still don't trust them to this day, and we still get together on rare occasions. I forgave them to a point, but the hurt will never go away.

Teenage years can be horrible, but believe me when I tell you, you will move on and find people who appreciate you and treat you with kindness. It hurts right now, but it will get better, I promise.

Answer 2

Go for it, take your anger out on them now. Remember to use your fists though.

Answer 3

I think it is AWFUL  

Answer 4

Haaaaaa ...............

Such an unseemable 'worry' is very common if you are the best of-a-man ...

But this doesn't mean that you have to stop being a nice-guy ... In fact, you should behave in your best and overcome this type of a 'grief' ... In due time, some one else will notice your good behaviour and invite you to join his or her group ...

But, YOU MUST STOP SULKING ... Act like a brave-guy ... In due time, all those who are against you or making fun of you will realize their mistake and try to make-up to you ...

Don't think of revenge - it will burn you up and leave them unschatered.

Answer 5

You're not really in the wrong, they're hardly a great group of friends and you would probably be better off without them.

If you feel they are worth your efforts then dont hold a grudge against them and forgive them, however I would say they have gone too far and you should move on and forget about them, they dont deserve your friendship