To have a party or not?

Question

For my 21st (2 years ago this year october) my step dad had said that his house was up to have the party at & he & the entire family would leave when the party started or just before. Because most of us were writing exams that monday, had to just stick to a few of us having lunch(I know boring right). My biological dad passed away in December & thinking of maybe having a party this year.

I know my step dad wont mind me using his place to have it at,but there certain people in my family who may object to it. Its only in October. Should I be worried of having this party or just not have it at all & wait for my 25th birthday to have a crown birthday?

Answer 1

Wait until next year to have the blow out and the place where you hold it is up to you. Parks are cheap if you don't want to spend a lot of $$$. This year keep it smaller & low key with friends and family and don't ask your obviously kind step dad to leave. You should include him in your celebration. If you want to party down go out to the bars with friendsafter the family party. Having lost your dad it seems like you'd want to embrace family. Just a thought.