To have the third baby or not too...?

Question

me and my husband have 2 children. Rylee turning 2 in september. and Jaede she is about to be 3 months, her b-day was june 10th.. for some reason, immediately after, i have been having baby fever! it went away for about a month and now its back! i want to be pregnant. i keep running negatives in my head, and i keep resorting back to why not! i guess its like, i know if i don't have another baby soon, i wont have another one, and to think i will never bare another child makes me kinda of depressed. my husband doesn't mind having another baby, its up to me.

Answer 1

if he is leaving the choice up to you i would wait until the youngest is atleast 6 months old and then decided but if its really what you want go for it ....its not like the baby would be un wanted good luck

Answer 2

Then why not? if you feel like you might not have anyone one at all if you don't have one soon, you may always feel like your family is incomplete.

If you and your husband are in a position where you can have another one, than by all means, let yourselves loose! :) Good luck!

V.

Answer 3

Say you were lucky enough to get pregnant almost straight away there would only be about 16 months between your babies as well as another small child at home and it would be very demanding. I have the greatest respect for women who have babies with such small age gaps because I don't think I could ever cope.

I think if you waited a little longer it would be easier for you and also it would give you more time to enjoy the baby you already have first because you won't have as much time for her when another comes along.

Answer 4

I'd say go for it!  If you and your husband are ready, no reason to wait, unless you have a medical reason.  As for having them close in age, sometimes its even easier because they may play together easily being close in age.    

Answer 5

you go girl i am trying as well but theres a three year gap btw my kids and it will be nearly 3 and a 1/2 with this one praying i am pregnant good luck xxxxxx

Answer 6

Wait a little, your body is still hormonal.  I would wait at least 8 months after the last baby to make a decision.  Children are a beautiful gift from god.  if it's meant to be, then it will be.  I believe we are all predestined in life.

Answer 7

It sounds like you would really like another baby. So have one! But I would wait a while until your 2nd baby gets to be a at least 1 or 2. You've got to give that  little one a lot of attention without worrying about a another little baby!

You've got plenty of time!

Answer 8

To me it seems like you want one. But I don't know that I personally would do it with the smallest baby being 3 months old, that's not much of a difference in between the 2. Plus your body is still healing from the 2nd child.

Answer 9

I say if you want another one, your husband is for it, and you are financially able to care for another one, go for it!  I agree with waiting a little though.  Let your 3 month old have her Mommy time for a bit 1st ;)

Answer 10

Why not..if you and your hubby want another baby it's really up to you guys..

Try waiting a little to give your body some rest.

Answer 11

Have another one hunny i think as long as people take care of there kids then they should have as many as they want, with no stigma attached to it, i take my hat off to you your a brave lady ha ha

Answer 12

Sure, have another one! I would just wait a bit...I have heard it takes 24 months for a woman's body to be back to prime "baby carrying" condition. If you are healthy and had good pregnancies and deliveries - and you think it is right for you - go for it! We are going for 3 or 4 - my little one is just 9 months and so I am waiting a bit so she can be completely "babied" before another one joins the mix.  

Answer 13

awwww yes have another one as long you can afford it, and spare the time =) but wait a while like a year or so