To whom shall i talk ,somebody have to come forward,its matter of life and death?

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came to london to study two years ago. this 2 year fees and rent etc . took my parents whole life saving. i have failed in almost every subject.but my parents think their son is one of the toppers. back in my country everybody in society knows that this family"s boy went abroad. on short i am deceiving everyone.now there is situation rise that my parents are asking for the password of my uni account for my personal details of my study.THE BANK FROM WE HAVE TAKEN THE LOAN IS ASKING FOR MY PROGRESS REPORT whatt should i do now . i feel like i should die because my mother and father are both heart patients.what should i do.where should i go. if something happened to them! idintt feel like living ,,,,realy

Answer 1

okay, you should've told the truth in the first place. I think that you're afraid that everyone's gonna get mad at you and bad stuff will happen to your parents. okay. First of all, i can see that you need help in your studies. get a tutor. or study harder. Second of all, if you didn't have a job, you should get one now. I mean, ur problem's also a money crisis. I don't know what to tell you bout ur parents, dude, but you better step things up, grab your courage, and tell the truth. and study harder, get a tutor, and get a job.    

Answer 2

Phone your parents and tell them how un-happy you are. Tell them how sorry you are and that you dont know what to do. Parents are there to save the day :)

Answer 3

Your Screwed

Answer 4

It is better for you to tell your parents -- they will handle it better than hearing it from a stranger.  You will have a chance to talk it over and decide together how to go forward from where you are now.

Can you get a job? Help out with money?  Is there a counseling office at the uni where you can talk this over and get some helpful information?

Don't let other people's gossip or criticism bother you-- your future and the well being of your family are at stake and you are absolutely not the first person to be in your situation.  Don't give up! Look for ways to get through this!