Tomorrow I will lose my virginity

Question

Hi guys so i am really nervous, tomorrow i'm going to lose my virginity and i'm afraid i will be a premature ejaculator and i am afraid that the girl will find out I’m a virgin and i'm soo nervous about it, i like her a lot. So i went to see the doctor and he told me he will give me a local anaesthesia around my genital area so that I’m less sensitive but he said that I might be completely numb there… I said I don’t care do it anyways.. what you think?

please help!

Answer 1

Yea.  Right.  Doctors will give you a local so you can look like a big man when you lose your virginity, maybe in fantasy land.  Troll.

Answer 2

tell her u want to have a warm-up lap and pretend that you made yourself jackulate all over super quick. then tell her to put a bag over her head just in case u feel like u will pre mature again and u can lie and say no u didnt jackulate again.

k bai.

Answer 3

ok relax!

the numbing thing sounds very wierd 2 me, i mean if you did go ahead and have it done are you gonna want it every time you want to make love, imean are you gonna be caught out one night at 11pm and have to go nocking on your doctors door because you rely on it?

id say forget the numbing thing

also do you know if its your girls first time? she may be just as nervous as you,

just relax and enjoy x*x good luck xx

Answer 4

Well, you posted in pregnancy &parenting, so I'd say use a condom either way.

Answer 5

If your numb there, I don't even think you will be able to get it up. Plus thats the silliest thing I have heard. What doctor in his right mind would do that?

Answer 6

Alright! Congrats man! What I would do first off is to wear a condom not only that it's safe but it will make you last longer because the condom takes away a lot of the wet warm sensation that will make you *** faster. Remember where the hole is! Don't ask her where do I put it! I remember my first time I was struggling to find the hole, it was embarrassing.  When you feel that you're about to *** just take it out and wait! Then proceed but slower then move faster. Plus you're making love! Not s*x! So take it easy go slow and enjoy it. =)

Answer 7

I have to say this one thing. You're not ready to have s*x. If you can't be honest with her that you're a virgin, then she's not the one you want to be with. You want to be with someone who respects you. Just make sure you're careful. I hate to say it, but you'll regret it later if you have s*x with her. I'm 25 and I regret who I lost my virginity to. I also lied to him and told him I wasn't a virgin. Makes me sick to this day. Good luck and think about it first. You don't want to have s*x with someone you're not comfortable with

Answer 8

Don't get the anaesthetic! I hate to be crude but knock one out about an hour before.  This will make you last longer. I only know this because my husband used to do this when we first started sleeping together. Also, if you spend a lot of time concentrating on her first and don't get involved yourself too quickly then it'll seem longer to her because you've spent all that time beforehand.  

Also, the first time can be a bit awkward so sometimes it's best for it not to last toooo long.

Good luck x