Too Much , Too Young ?

Question

My Best Friend Maddie goes out with this boy thats in year 10 , now we are only in year 9 but too me hes too experianced for her.

Shes my best friend but she is getting really S****y , she is now wearing short pleated skirts cos he tells her too , he not horrible to her but he cant go five minutes without making out with her in the music rooms , maddie always wants me to be there while they are canoodleing juss incase it goes too far.

but i cant stay with them any longer , they dont even kiss they have too touch and feel & i think youu know what i mean now.

Help me x

Answer 1

Let your friend know that you have no intention of being her guard dog. Also mention that she's heading for trouble if she's not careful.

Answer 2

Well you say your friend is worried about things going to far but they are feeling each other up, all over school.  How much farther could it go than that scenario at school?  I would just find a different route to my other classes without her and her boyfriend.  She doesn't need a babysitter, and if she is uncomfortable with him doing those things a can of mace is worth a thousand No's.  Sounds to me like her boyfriends got raging hormones, that he doesn't want to control.

Answer 3

gawd, thats my number one pet peeve. my best friend did that bull s**t to me too a few times, so i just stopped hanging out with her for a while, then when she did it again when i was with her and her bf, i just slapped her bf outside the head. i guess that did it for me.  

Answer 4

Have a good chat with your friend and explain to her that she is way over her head. He's not the kind of boyfriend she needs in her life. If you guys are real friends she'll listen. Help her before she does something she'll really regret.

Answer 5

sorry you can't get help about this and you can't help ur frnd either....she won't understand thhis

Answer 6

She likes having you watch her have s*x. It has nothing to do with keeping her from going too far. She may even be wanting you to join them. Tell her it is her responsibility to control her urges, not your responsibility, and you are not going to guard for her anymore. You might also tell her she is going to get pregnant if she does not learn to control herself.

I am not saying your decision is the right one, but I hope what I am saying helps you accomplish what you said you wanted.

Answer 7

I doubt your friend is going to listen to you about how she looks and behaves. But you don't have to witness her snogging with him. She has to take responsibility for how far she goes. Give her some space and let her call you.  

Answer 8

thats kinda gross i leave whenever my friends make out, tell her those pleated skirts make her look fat, and tell her not to go to far if she was smart she would know when is too much when there touching and feeling and stop and wouldn't have to have a friend there..