Too timid to wear heels!?

Question

I'm a heavyset girl and I have really cute shoes (heels) to wear but I'm often too timid to wear them. In fact, I'm always too timid to wear them. I feel like I'm making a spectacle of myself. Where would I wear them and how can I not be timid?

I guess that's why I've always stuck to the basics (tee, jeans etc.) but I want to break out of that and wear awesome things and feel beautiful! I suppose I could start with the heels because I can't really afford to buy a new wardrobe just yet. (I like to shop at Torrid and its super expensive) Any suggestions?

Answer 1

You can wear heals wth any outfit really. Like jeans and a shirt that look good with your heals.. You dont need to go crazy! :)  

Answer 2

The first thing you need to do is not think of yourself as a spectacle. Work on your confidence girl! The second thing, which will also help with your confidence, is practice wearing the heels around your house. Strut your stuff in front of your mirror. Once you are comfortable with them, have broken them in, and feel good about wearing them, rock them out in public!

Answer 3

wear heels