Too young. too old.?

Question

I'm 14. my ex just turned 18 :s

i'm 14.. my crush is 16

my crush is 16 and.. he likes me

i was 11 my first kiss was with a 13 year old..

i was 9 and lets all him ..DD.. was 12

i think i have a problem hahaha or i just look older then i am xD

all of them knew how old i am and was.

Answer 1

You are dangerous and will end up putting a man in prison.

All men should stay away from you.

Answer 2

Are you trying to say you first had s*x at 9 years old? Or that you generally seem to like guys that are a bit older than you?

As long as you look after yourself and remember that you are underage for s*x and there is a damned good reason for that age limit- to protect YOU- then I cant see what the issue is to like guys a bit older than you.

My first time, I was 16, he was 22 and knew stuff about the world I never had a clue about. I loved him so much, I let him do stuff I wish now I hadnt, for lots of reasons that were everything to me at the time but mean c**p all now! Reasons like, because I wanted him to like me, I thought everyone else must have had s*x by now and I didnt want to be "abnormal" I wanted to keep up with my mates, I thought it was so cool that an older guy liked me, I though I must be something really special to get an older guy to like me I had no idea that to be honest, there is always an abuser out there looking for you, you're not special at all, just STUPID, I had no idea I would regret it later, I didnt know and couldnt see beyond my limited knowledge and perspective what I was geting into etc etc etc.

Cherish your innocence while you have it!

Answer 3

With my conservative Christian upbringing, I found you real peculiar. I can't imagine a child having s*x at a very tender age. In this world we have differences of preferences and opinions. I respect yours if that is what you really wanted but I hope regrets won't come to you. Carry on.

Answer 4

I have married twice and my first husband was 7 years older than me and my second 10 years oler than me. Whne was your age I tended to date boys a bit older than me and when I was 17 my first serious boydriend was 24. I have often been told that it is more about mental maturity and it comes to females faster than males aso you tend to be on par with men a littel older than yourself in your teens but it all evens ouit by late twenties to thrities. Just enjoy the dating and keep it at that you seem sensible about it. newver hide anythiing from your parents either!

Answer 5

im 26 and people say i look 17 or 18 LOL its normal dont worry about it :)

Answer 6

You are a typical child.   You will grow out of it, honest!

Answer 7

the biggest age gap was 4 years put it this way, if you were 11 would you date a 7 year old?