Tooooooooooooo skinny or is this <span title="normal??????????????????????????????????">normal???????????????????...</span>

Question

im 18. i was wondering if the reason guys never approach me and why i have never had a real bf is because i'm too skinny and guys like curves? for ex. this one guy always stares at me but never comes and talks to me. some people have asked me if i am anorexic. i am NOT it is completely natural and i eat whatever i want.

i am very nice but also shy with new people. umm people tell me i have a pretty face even people i don't know have told me that but it hasn't happened in a few months. i dont know if they're just being nice or what...... i don't know what the problem is. i am going to college this year and i want a bf. could you tell me if the problem is my body??- rate 1-10 and tell me if you would/would not date someone with this body.

http://i212.photobucket.com/albums/cc181/jellybelleelle/Photo1.jpg

http://i212.photobucket.com/albums/cc181/jellybelleelle/Photo3.jpg

http://i212.photobucket.com/albums/cc181/jellybelleelle/aaaaaaaaaa.jpg

Answer 1

You are a beautiful gal and yes you are thin and they may be taken back about this because so many people are obese in our society and they accept fat as a good thing when it is not. I say as long as you are healthy and happy that is all that counts. You will find a guy. It may just be because you are shy and have nothing to do with your weight or guys may be taken back. I too am thin and have been all my life. I use to get that you have some eating disorder and so forth. I even got it from my own parents. My Mom and sister were both obese and my sister is only 5&#039;1 and weighs close to 300 pounds. Not good. I am 5&#039;5 and 100 pounds soaking wet, but I am healthy and eat and happy. That is all that matters.

Be proud of yourself and be happy you don&#039;t have to lose weight or overweight which is is so bad for you and hard on your heart.

Answer 2

you are fine.;... people shouldnt care about weight....and if it got alarmingly tiny(which u arent) they should be there for you.....like for marriage,,, for better or for worst and through sickness and through health

Answer 3

What you need to do is eat more so you can gain some weight.

Answer 4

you are skinny!!

but as long as your healthy and not one of those girls who obsess over their weight youl be fine... maybe you should try and be alil less shy.. just take it one step at at time it dosnt mean you have to flirt with evryone....

ppl would giv me comments like being anorexic when i was about your age... ppl still somtimes comment oh my gosh your soo skinny.. but whatever.... i know i eat

youl be fine with the whole bf thing just be you.... and about the rating thing id give you an 8 you should have added your face though i bet you are pretty.. good luck with school and chill out!!

Answer 5

you are thin but yea every guy is different, just ignore people that say your ana if your not, there are guys out thier that love a women with curvs and a little meat but then thier are some that prefer really thin girls, you juts havent found the right one yet.

oh yea i would rate you a 9, nice b***s

Answer 6

ur nice and u just need right time girl .

Answer 7

You look fine (not to thin).  You&#039;ll probably gain weight over the next few years.  So you&#039;ve got a great platform to  exercise and do some light weight training and get a really great body.  A lot of guys are just as shy and nervous as you.  You should try walking up to one of them and starting a convo, you&#039;d prolly scare the s*** out of &#039;em.

Answer 8

Don&#039;t worry about it I am thin myself, in fact I look exactly like that. I have this problem too. Do you hang out with a lot of guys? If not you should start. And If you find one that interests you flirt with him a little. You look fine. Don&#039;t sweat it, the right guy will come along and he&#039;ll make you happy. Forget everyone who thinks you&#039;re something that you&#039;re not, as long as you are happy and healthy, f***k them.

Answer 9

You are  thin. But as long as you are healthy and happy, that&#039;s all that should matter. If someone is shallow enough to not want to date you because of your body type, then they don&#039;t deserve you anyways. Most guys do like a bit more meat on a woman, but plenty of guys enjoy a body like yours. Different strokes for different folks:). Good luck, hon!