Torn between two groups of friends.....?

Question

Our cafeteria at school is so crowded i've been sitting with some of my band friends and my other friends are getting mad at me

the tables are right next to each other

there's no room at their table

my ex-best friend sits w/them

whenever i sit down my other bff is across the table and she leaves shortly after with my ex-best friend

Answer 1

... always balance your friendship with everyone. Always remain the same you. If your ex best friends are mad at you, just go up to them and apologize, and tell them everything , if you remain honest then they will not be mad at you anymore. Depending when you started the band, your ex best friends thought they were losing you as far as true friendship. Balance both and bring  them into one. Invite them over to sit with your band, they will feel welcome.

Always know your real friends because when they are mad at you, in their heart they really care about you no matter what.  

Answer 2

wer do u rily wnt to go wd??

wer do fil u r rily welcumed,.and not being talked about at ur back.,.

nd hus loyal to u

Answer 3

i have the same problem.

i just say 'f**k it' and sit with the people that treat me better.=)

Answer 4

i have almost exactly the same problem, or i can say even worse. i have been torn in 3 different groups. let say group A,B, and C. group A keep saying bad things about B, not really bad about C. B takes whatever happens as it goes. C never gives any comments on whatsoever happens between me and A, or just simply say ignore them. i just want to say that it's better against treating them differently. it will seem unfair. thus, there will be no bad judgment about you. and for sure, be wherever you are accepted as what you are and where you feel comfortable the most.

Answer 5

I say sit by yourself and let them come to you. It isn't fair for anyone to get angry at you for where you sit at lunch. The "friends" that do get mad aren't really being friends at all to you.

Answer 6

Who cares if she wants to be a snob?

Do what you wanna do and don't worry about anybody else!

In life, you can let people get in your way, or you can walk right around them. Choose the second option[;

Anyways about where to sit, you can always switch off where you sit everyday. Just change every other day.

It's always good to have more than one group of friends.

good luck![;