Totatly messed up by people around me..?

Question

people around me r torchering me.......which i know.still i cant tell them no on there face. how can i come out? i want to get peace of mind.......

Answer 1

d same happens wid me frnd..

i too do not hav ne fu**in solution to it..

sorry, can't help u in dis case coz i hav d same problem..

Answer 2

dont let them kno it bothers u they r doing it to get a rise out of u ignore them even just act like u think ur better than them it might make them back down dont let them see that u feel threatened by their actions i used to get picked on alot and i hated it but if u can give it right back sometimes that helps but i really just stopped caring what people thought of me and it helped its not easy but it does work just dont do any school shootings k these r the reasons they usually happen

Answer 3

I know it can really be frustrating when things don't work the way u want them to. You aren't the only one who's going through all this, we've all been there. You need to be more self-confident. You see, its kind of like u need to avoid toxic people. By toxic i mean, people who intentionally criticise and gossip about u. These sorta people have a general tendency to drag u down. So just avoid them, u need not spoil yr energy and time to change their attitudes, its gonna take lots time. Get going with people who r optimistic and will encourage u in whatever u do. Learn to disregard negative messages from people and say NO.

Think more of positive and count on yr blessings. Meditate every morning and drink lots of water [ I know it sounds funny, but believe me, water helps to detoxify yr system, so that u'll have more of a positive attitude towards life] Feeling low? Take yr ipod and go for a long walk around yr block. See, it works. Be happy and keep smiling, it works wonders for u as well as people around u. Good luck and peace...

Answer 4

For what and Why ?

Try to study the reasons. you can over come such Problems.

But don't assume the illusions as real picture.

Answer 5

If People torment us,it is only because we let them to...I learned tat fact the hard way.And telling them on their face can be quite difficult too ,but simple actions like moving away from the place wen it happens,giving them a long hard look wen they do it and refusing to give them the pleasure of having got to u, can work! If u act like u don't care or better still if u really stop caring,it wil stop them...