Ok here goes.. My bf and I have been going out for 1 1/2 years. (we're both 19) I love him so very much, he is my whole world but lately I feel so emotionally lonely and confused.
Well first off he never compliments me or tells me what I mean to him or anything like that. I know guys show their love differently - the whole actions over words thing but we talk online everyday and its way more than I see him in person (due to uni/work)so I dont get that much anyway. And its something I need..I compliment him all the time, tell him how much he means to me..am I being selfish for wanting that too?
So a few weeks ago he stopped saying "I love you too" (i say it first mostly) and I ask if anythings wrong. It turns into an argument (we've had a few fights past week but its been sorted and was nothing big). He says "I don't say that stuff alot to anyone and well im sorry that i cant ever seem to do anything right". He tells me just becuase he doesnt say it doesn't mean its not there but I don't understand.. he didn't have any trouble saying it to me before, all I wanted was to know why he didn't say I love you back is it too much to ask..It really means alot to me and i told him that? It's been a week since that fight he still doesnt say it infact yesterday he replaced the usual goodnight have a good sleep with a simple 'cya'.
I feel I can't talk to him about it without starting a fight which I honestly don't want.
Thanks for reading I just had to get it off my chest, some feedback/advice would be muchly apreciated.
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