Tough <span title="Decision.................?">Decision....................</span>

Question

I either move away and never contact my fiance again... or i do something drastic.... We have been together almost 3 years and we don't have enough money to stay at our apartment... i can't find a job, i have been looking since may... he is in college, because we decided to let him go first.... we are both 19 and have been together since our sweet sixteen... i'm about to lose it...

Answer 1

Sounds to me like you have no other choice if you can&#039;t stay at your apartment.  Look, you are only 19, why put all that pressure on your shoulder right now if you don&#039;t have to?  I&#039;m sure you love him, but why should you give up going college right now?  You have your whole life to live with a man........now is the time to live for yourself!

Answer 2

Oh, how sweet..

BUT...if cannot find a job and things are going from bad to worse, then the best is to move for a while with your dad...just s period of time...till you can be back on your feet again and may be then you go back to him,

Ohhh..these decisions are TOUGH..i know, but you have to consider you own interest and safety..

i might sound cruel, but believe me...at certain points in life you will need to make more tough decisions...be bitchy even sometimes..so to make a little Damage control, think of what would make you safe? go back to your parents for a while...

First, give yourself another two weeks or something to look harder for a job as long as you want to stay with him badly...and then go back for a while...

IF your dad would pay for your college, then go back and get in some college....

If life gets harder and harder, love sometimes becomes a burden..I wished for my husband to stay with me after marriage till we can move together, he volunteered at a parttime job and he is not happy at all, angry, moody,,,i would rather we split for a while, he goes back to his hometown..get a job and settle till i can join him...

Hope i helped