Tougher to find commitment these days?

Question

Some friends and I were having a discussion the other day about how much more difficult it seems to be to find a loyal partner these days. In a time where women are more and more independent it seems more and more guys are now on the losing end of long-term relationships. All of my friends and I have been dumped in 2 year plus relationships because these girls felt they needed to experience other people. We were raised thinking it was the guy who was typically afraid of making the commitment only to find it seems to be the other way around. Any other guys feelin us on this? Have males just become soft and women stronger? Just want to know some opinions on this observation.

Answer 1

I think that women today are afraid of marriage . I it seems to be on both sides. I want to get marry before i turn 30. But it my boyfriend is having a hard time with us just being in relationship. It depends on the person.  

Answer 2

I don't really think it has anything to do with women becoming independent.  I think society as a whole is less loyal.  People jump from job to job with no loyalty to a company.  And some people jump from relationship relationship, or bed to bed, with no regard for anyone but themselves.  Its really sad.  But for all the people like that, there's also good a loyal people who don't cheat.  You just don't hear about them because they haven't done anything wrong.