Heres the thing, I know its extremely impolite and rude to mention you would prefer money over gifts, but thats just being honest. My fiance and I have been living together for almost 2 yrs and are getting married in Nov. I have heard if we dont "prefer" gifts we could simply not register at registries, but isnt it just as rude to receive a gift pretend you like it knowing you dont and that you are only gonna try and return it? the majority of people coming to our wedding is family and close friends, I have heard we could just put No boxed gifts on the invitations, but I dont want to seem greedy or rude, however we have 2 toasters and 2 microwaves 2 irons 2 of everything because he had his and I had mine ,the thing is we dont expect any gifts but would rather if people want to give gifts they give it in gift card form or cash...what or how is a good way to approach this "delicate" situation?
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