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Triple Life? Or Just Normal?

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I'm 20yo, and I just can't shake the feeling that I'm just not myself. A simple fix, except for the fact that I live 3 (maybe more) different lifestyles (party boy, card playing geek, and techie, amongst others), and as of late, I can't tell who I am anymore. Whenever I hang with 1 group, I usually am looking over my shoulders, making sure someone doesn't see me. The "easiest" answer I can think of is to break ties with one or more group. However, doing so would be rather painful for me (mentally, as I have made very good friends within each main circle I'm in), and would possibly carry some serious backlash toward my reputation. I would like to avoid having to do damage control on my life, as I got enough of that BS in high school (and it might be a lot harder to dispel).

So here's the main question: What should I do to get rid of this nagging feeling of not knowing who I am? Do I need to do anything? Am I trying to pull too much out of life? Or am I normal?

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  1. Find out who you are introspect, and realise that what you do and are intrested in are not who you are.

    See?


  2. Regret "sent" from your former life (lives) is ripping your mind open.  You're about to make a pivotal decision.        

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