Trouble making good friends?

Question

im 15, female. i can make friends pretty easily. like i will always have a group of people to hangout with at school, eat with at lunch, talk to, sit with in class,and enough friends that i could organize a large get together going out for a new movie coming up. but i don't have any close friends, you know, that person you can call every evening, envite over to your house repetitively, or that person that you would take with you on a trip or something. how can i make friends this year, but so we will be more close? like, best friends?

Answer 1

Very good friends come few and far apart....don't try to hard to make someone your very good/best friend....just let it come naturally....I met my very best friend at like 14/15 (I am now engaged to her brother)....a little later than most people...and you'll meet some of them in college.  You will probably only have like 1-3 really close friends....for now dont worry about it....but you might also want to consider if it is something you are doing to keep people at a distance....Oneof my friends is really really nice but she is irritating and needy....but she is a really good friend...but I have to admit...I can see why she doesn't have a lot of friends...

Answer 2

There isn't some kind of technique to find a good friend, people come and go in our lives and very few remain and even fewer remain close. A best friendship is something that has to develop over time and events it's not instant. I have a best friend and I met him around the same age as you are and we have been best friends for over 15 years now, when I first met him i didn't care for him an he said the same thing about me but over time we became more like brothers. I didn't go looking for him it just came to be and hopefully you can enjoy friendship like that one day. Let life bring you together naturally