Trouble masturbating?

Question

I am 16 and yesterday I attempted to m********e, but could not achieve ejcaulation. I tried fantasising mentally and also whilst viewing p**n, but this did not help. I tried moving my hand at various speeds, and using various grips for upto a few minutes, but this also proved useless. I have already viewed various websites telling me how to m********e, and they tell me nothing I am not doing already. So can anyone tell me what I am doing wrong!? Oh and I have no problem producing the goods, as I have regular nocturnal emissions, and also cannot be bothered to buy lubricants and would rather be able to **** without it.

Thanks.

Answer 1

that sucks 4 u

Answer 2

thats rly weird........practice makes perfect =]

ur 16 and u cant m********e?LOL thats funny

Answer 3

Masturbation is for you. Just wait till you have s*x.

Answer 4

Hey Matt !!!

Maybe U're just trying 2 hard.

Go a few weeks without doing it, then try again.

If U need 2 use some lube, try using vegetable oil instead.  It great for the skin + it works just as well as the lube.

Just be patient cause it souds like U're doing it right, so maybe all U need is a little rest in between & that should do the trick.

Good luck bud.

Chow

Answer 5

Imagine having to urinate, and you are holding it back until you reach the  bathroom..that same muscle is the one you have to hold to reach climax. cut a hold in top of cantelope ..and put your rod in there make it a tight fit..you shoot them..

Answer 6

That's unusual, but the fact that you have nocturnal emissions shows everything works.

Perhaps try for longer, have you gone on as long as 30 minutes? There have been times where I've needed to stimulate myself for that long, but when the time is right to *** after 30 min of stimulation, you realise that its worth it.

Also, don't worry about it, that's perhaps whats causing you not to ejaculate. You should focus on enjoying the sensation. Your goal is to enjoy the feeling, not to ejaculate. And you'll probably find you'll be more successful.

GL!

If you'd like to chat about it, chat to me at [e-mail].

Answer 7

There's nothing wrong, but masturbating may not bring you as much pleasure as it does other males. Don't worry, for some males aren't able to achieve ejaculation by masturbation if the stimulation isn't strong enough. Try humping a pillow or two and see if that helps. Hope this helps.

Answer 8

You forgot the most important matter... it's to say the libido!

Was you hor*ny enough?!

Often boys get wa*nk every time they want as like as a pastime and because is trend! On the contrary s*x is a natural matter to get only when there's the need. With few libido any acts will be difficult to carry out and I advise you to have a rest and wait....  

Answer 9

You maybe masturbating, but maybe not doing it long enough, some days i can m********e and ejaculate in 30 seconds, others it can take me 10-15 minutes, keep doing it for longer, and relax, you maybe thinking about it too much, preventing you from ejaculating.

Answer 10

How much dope are you doing?

Answer 11

"you cannot be bothered to buy lubricants and would rather do without them?"      Then you're going to have trouble masturbating.

You're obviously circumcised.    Guys who are left intact (with f******n) don't have to use lube, as the skin moves back and forth over the glans.      You need more stimulation to achieve o****m as the circumcision destroyed probably about 50% or more of your sexual sensitivity.

If you don't want to be bothered with lube, you won't be bothered with o****m.

Answer 12

when you beat the meat lay in some hot water it will much better  

Answer 13

Maybe you have a certain fetish and need to please it.

Many men/women with true fetishes are not able to get aroused unless said fetish is pleased.

Answer 14

It's unusual but not unheard of that someone your age will have trouble comming.  It's probably because the manual stimulation just isn't enough.  The fact that you get wood and have wet dreams means that your gear is working right - it's just that you need some more mental stimulation.

You might find this link helpful: http://www.jackinworld.com/howto/ht3.htm...

If that doesn't do it for you, then maybe you need to start getting some visual aids.  We guys are wired to react to images - it's the reason that Playboy and Hustler are such big sellers.  If you haven't already, maybe pick up a copy of one of those (or borrow it from a bud) and see if that works.

Good luck and happy jacks!  :-)