Trouble with my mother in law

Question

I made a huge mistake and my mother in law and me have been fig thing on and off for years. now i blew it. she kicked me out of her house. here is the reason. well we had her truck parked into our drive way for more then 9 years. when i told my husband either fix it or imam going to get someone who wants it. well we told My mother in law . and she said ok. but when we started to get read of it she screamed at me and told me she had someone else in mind. see my husband was not around when i was over her house. she screamed at me and then i called her a bad name. she then kicked me out of her house and told me never to come back. well i haven't talked to her since may. my adult children go over so does my husband. i tell him to talk to his mother about this. she will never apologize to me. i wish we could talk again what imam suppose to do to get mother in law to talk. or should i let it go

Answer 1

just keep trying and she will find it in her heart to for giving  you and ask god what you what for you and your in-laws to do about this matter i'm pray for you

Answer 2

the best piece of advice you will ever get. think about it. please.

"you dont know what you've got until it's gone" believe me.

i know it. in a different, more painful, way.

Let me ask you something. is that how you want to die?

Answer 3

considering the weight of the circumstances, if personally saying sorry seems too hard for you,  i think a sorry card, on a very significant day, will do.. you have to put all your heart on it, but dont try to bring up the subject again, no bringing up who's at fault, even if you felt it was her..there's much strain between you i bet it you dont necessarily have to say what its all about to make her undrstand what youre apologizing for.   also why dont you try smiling at her cautiously, even from a distance, w/out any trace of contempt, to convey your good will?-make her feel you still do respect her--start within yourself sincerely, you cant make her forget about it while you're clinging onto the bad memories of it yourself  

Answer 4

Your mother in law should read the book called boundaries. your mother in law needs to respect you as a wife and mother, and not interfere with your decisions. I know the truck had been parked in her driveway, but that is what she was willing to do to help you guys out, but when it came to deal with the truck it was you and your husbands decision. Do not feel like your in the wrong, your mother-in-law needs to apologize for acting as a child.