I am engaged to get married to a Mr J.L.B. Matekoni, proprietor of Tlokweng Road Speedy Motors, a successful businessman in his mid-forties. I have my own business as well, and we both have houses. We had to decide where we'd live, and I went to his. I have not been there before, dreading a bachelor pad with the calendars of good time girl splashed all around on the walls. The yard was a mess, with the dustbin overturned. The house was not bad, the living room pleasing. The spare bedroom was empty, with an engine in the centre and spare parts to it littered all over. The bathroom clean enough. The dining room was dirty, with piles of dust all over. The other rooms littered with boxes and what nots. There is a maid, who is supposed to cook and clean. Yet the house is neglected, she cooks only maizemeal and stew, yet asks a lot of money for kitchen supplies. When I came to talk to the maid, she insulted me and verbally abused me. I already decided to keep my own maid. Yet before I saw her we agreed to recommend her to Mr Matekoni's cousin, who keeps a hotel. There are a lot of unemployed people here, and we would not like the maid to suffer because of our marriage. Now I am hesitant, because this maid is both dishonest and lazy. We can't saddle someone with a worker like her, yet I'd like Mr Matekoni to keep a positive image. What should I do?
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